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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival => Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board => Topic started by: Starfish on September 05, 2007, 08:04:45 PM

Title: I don't feel like telling my family
Post by: Starfish on September 05, 2007, 08:04:45 PM
 :D  I got married on Saturday with my dearest friends in attendance. It was a lovely time, and I would not have changed it for the world.

I told my family (specifically Nmom) that we were getting hitched by the Justice of the Peace at city hall so she would not come.  I did promise to let her know when it happened, so she could congratulate me.  I have not called and I don't want to.

P.s The dog boys looked great in their leis and painted toe nails! I will post photos soon.
Love Starfish (an old married lady, again)
Title: Re: I don't feel like telling my family
Post by: Certain Hope on September 05, 2007, 08:13:52 PM
Awww  :D  Congratulations Mrs. and Mr. Starfish!! 

Love and blessings to you both for many joyful years together  :)

Hey, you could drop a wedding announcement into the mail for "mom" and still honor your promise... whenever you're ready....
I just hate to think of how that phone call could deflate your joy right now.

Again, very best wishes to you and I'm looking forward to seein those snazzy pups  8)

With love,
Hope
Title: Re: I don't feel like telling my family
Post by: Iphi on September 05, 2007, 08:35:09 PM
Congratulations!!  Don't kill the buzz.  I like that sending an announcement idea.   :D
Title: Re: I don't feel like telling my family
Post by: Ami on September 05, 2007, 08:47:57 PM
 Congratulations--- Star. I wish you much happiness and peace .                   Love  Ami
Title: Re: I don't feel like telling my family
Post by: Poppyseed on September 06, 2007, 10:09:40 AM
Well this is some happy news!  Good on you!!  Best wishes!

poppy

Title: Re: I don't feel like telling my family
Post by: cats paw on September 06, 2007, 10:18:55 AM
Hello Starfish,

  How playful that you took your boys, and made your wedding you and your groom's own, along with those dear friends.

  I, too, love the suggestion of the announcement.  It is so good when people can help us see alternatives.


Best Wishes-

cats paw 
Title: Re: I don't feel like telling my family
Post by: JanetLG on September 06, 2007, 01:13:58 PM
Starfish (and Mr Starfish),

Congratulations! It sounds like it was a really special day.

Janet
Title: Re: I don't feel like telling my family
Post by: Starfish on September 06, 2007, 01:39:03 PM
Thanks everyone!

Here is a photo of Hank (at the bouquet toss!)(http://i39.photobucket.com/albums/e177/Laurlita/Hankatwedding007-1.jpg)

and the original photo from which I cropped it....
(http://i39.photobucket.com/albums/e177/Laurlita/laurieswedding007-1.jpg)

And I am taking the advice of all of you and will send out an announcement..
 8)
Title: Re: I don't feel like telling my family
Post by: JanetLG on September 06, 2007, 03:35:02 PM
Starfish,

Oh, what a joyous occasion, and so relaxed (and your doggie looks great with his 'decoration'!

Janet
Title: Re: I don't feel like telling my family
Post by: Ami on September 06, 2007, 03:56:48 PM
What a GREAT group of guests you have. Thanks for the picture. It was great to see         Love   Ami
Title: Re: I don't feel like telling my family
Post by: Certain Hope on September 06, 2007, 07:45:24 PM
Aww... Starfish, you are gorgeous, Hank is looking very dapper, and such a happy group surrounding you on your blessed day!
Beautiful setting, too  :)   I'm just thrilled for you and again, wishing you the very best.
Oh, I hope to make time to read your story post later... not finding the freedom to sit much today, but it's all good!

With love,
Hope
Title: Re: I don't feel like telling my family
Post by: Hopalong on September 07, 2007, 01:53:08 AM
Bells are ringing in my head for you, Starfish!

Will you bring hope to this old bat and tell us how you met Mr. Seahorse?

(Your dog looks like my true first husband, who was a yellow Lab.)

hugs
Hopalong
Title: Re: I don't feel like telling my family
Post by: CB123 on September 07, 2007, 07:29:56 AM
Star,

Your wedding looks like so much fun!  And Hank is such a handsome attendant!  :D

Congratulations!

Love
CB