Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board

Voicelessness and Emotional Survival => Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board => Topic started by: SoSmall on September 14, 2007, 12:57:37 AM

Title: Why I can't help here
Post by: SoSmall on September 14, 2007, 12:57:37 AM

I received sooo much help and support when i began posting on here.  I knew I wanted to repay and help.  But the thing is ... I can't spend the time thinking about my parents and sister.  It is sooo painful that it is just best for me to block it out as much as possible.  I have dealt with it.  But since the resolve isn't what I want - I don't know if I will ever be ok with it.  It just is what it is. 

but coming on here - it just reminds me of a hurt to unbearable.   :(  Just knowing something in my life is so debilitating makes me sad.  That I can't even come in here to help others b/c it overwhelmes me. 

Title: Re: Why I can't help here
Post by: gratitude28 on September 14, 2007, 07:23:06 AM

sosmall,
Thanks for sharing that. It is completely understandable. Maybe you can find a way to give somewhere else - at an animal shelter or someplace that feels safe to you.
Please take care and come here anytime ou need support.
Love, Beth

Title: Re: Why I can't help here
Post by: Ami on September 14, 2007, 07:42:42 AM

Dear SoSmall,
  I think that it might be the right thing for you to just come and "receive".Say what you need to say and let us care  for you.                                             Love   Ami