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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival => Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board => Topic started by: alone48 on October 18, 2007, 10:06:55 PM

Title: There is a God
Post by: alone48 on October 18, 2007, 10:06:55 PM

Not that I ever doubted it, but this week there was proof.

I'm trying hard not to get too excited because that is when N strikes, it's almost like he can smell it. I have been out of work since July and was just offered a new job starting next week. It's a little less $$ than my previous, but alot less stress. They called to verify my references the day before N called my ex boss. If I can just lay under the radar for awhile, maybe I have a chance of getting through this.

Thanks again for listening and all the support.

Title: Re: There is a God
Post by: Ami on October 18, 2007, 10:12:21 PM

I am so happy for you,Alone. Very,very well done, my friend.             Love   Ami

Title: Re: There is a God
Post by: Iphi on October 18, 2007, 10:40:36 PM

I very much hope it all comes together for you!

Title: Re: There is a God
Post by: Hopalong on October 19, 2007, 12:01:54 AM

This is wonderful A48!

So happy for you!

Care to share a little about the job??

happily,
Hops

Title: Re: There is a God
Post by: alone48 on October 19, 2007, 12:52:32 AM

I had gone a month with no contact and then he called wanting to know if I was alright. I emailed him back and said I was fine but didn't feel that I could talk with him at this time. He became enraged and contacted my ex boss with all kinds of lies and basically shredded my character. He didn't know that I don't work there anymore. I won't to deal with this, but am more afraid of him than anger at this point. It seems like no matter what I do it makes him angry. I know he hates women, but I seem to be the target for all of it. Advice?

This was from my previous post. He had thought my ex boss was a friend since they golfed together several times. He is very charming and had tried to convince my boss that I had done some things that weren't in the best interest of my department. I knew it was coming to that and therefore I left before he discredited me. There is alot more to it, but ultimately I knew he was very charming and convincing. I went back to my previous job of over 18 years ago. I had really liked it, but left when I had my son due to the distance. No longer a problem and N doesn't know where I am at the moment......! He is out to destroy me and therefore I'm leary about telling too much at the moment.....a lot of paranoia.

Title: Re: There is a God
Post by: Bella_French on October 19, 2007, 01:11:12 AM

Lol. I thought you were going to show me pictures!

(sorry)

Congratulations on finding a new job. I know how much that means, and I am glad to know you will have this opportunity to start afresh! I am not a `believer', but I can remember so many uncanny and wonderful things happening to me when i ws trying to rebuild my life, just when I needed them to happen.

X Bella

Title: Re: There is a God
Post by: lighter on October 19, 2007, 06:17:11 AM

Hey... you aren't paranoid when someone's out to get you, lol!

You're just being mindful ::nod::

Continue to be mindful, take care and try not to be found by N.

I sure hope you get that job: )

Title: Re: There is a God
Post by: Poppy Seed on October 19, 2007, 10:44:34 AM

So happy for you!


Love,
poppy