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Title: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
Post by: changing on October 22, 2007, 06:07:27 PM
Hello My Wonderful Friends Who Stick With Me Through Thick and Thin!
We won , in fact it was a savage beating!!!!
I got to court before my lawyer. Bagworm was there with the fence jumper Moron, and they looked at me like cartoon wolves looking at a lamb, seeing the dotted lines drawn around the lamb chops, etc. in their minds and salivating. Then they resumed talking (I hid around a corner and listened) It made me sick to hear them discuss my surgeries and disabilities as something for them to get money on, destroy me with, and yet to put me down about. Bagworm had looked at me like he did the day he brought the police over (the jackal).
My lawyer was late, in another court- I called and then spoke to the bailiff for him. There was a lady in court who was crying, so I gacve her a candy and a kKeenex and told her I was going to be next one crying. She laughed and I calmed her down. She won her case and kissed and hugged me afterward-Bagworm and Moron were puzzled.
Then they got a new look on their mugs- They began to read the papers we had filed(Why didn't they do that before!?!?). I heard Moron ask Worm about account numbers and such, and Worn answered, "Oh that's my Credit Union account (the one he drained!!!!) and then he asked him when I was accepted to law schoo;l. Then my lawyer came .
We were directed elsewhere- my lawyer said this had never happened before. The judge didn't want to hear the motion and it was sent to a mediator which should be for custody only. They asked to speak to the lawyers only, and Moron got admonished that he should be ashamed to have wasted my time and the court's time setting the hearing up, when there is obviously no valid claim!!! (This is extremely unusual)
Bagworm had wanted $2,000 per month and other things!!! My lawyer threw the other guy a bone and they got $40 a month support , though my lawyer said that soon I will get that back and get a substantial support instituted for myself- he wanted to get things together and present a cogent argument all at one time, and not charge more hours for today. Isn't that a hoot!!!
To save face the other lawyer then asked about arrearages- my lawyer asked me quite solemnly if I ciould pay $5 per month until I got the $20 back support paid. I said yes sir , if that is what you think... Moron said that he could not wait, he must have his client's back $20 by the 15th of November (Oh he fought for that)!!!!! My lawyer asked if I could pay the entire $20 by the 15th and I paused and said yes sir, I think so!!!Bagworm was almost crying by then- it was absolutely the funniest thing ever... He had on a very expensive outfit ( I had a plain suit and shoes) - it will take 10 years to pay for that outfit at the rate of $40 per month , and even longer to pay the lawyer fee!!!!!!! (But he won't be getting it anyway)
I also got the entire tax deduction on the house, etc, and get a tax deduction for the $40 a month in exchange for paying the support. Moron actually had to ask my lawyer how to fill things out, etc, and Bagworm was upset as this went on, closed his eyes, etc.!!!!!!!!!! I get to decide when Bagworm comes to pick uo his things, and I am to have protection there (my lawyer said the marshall!!!)- no surprise panty drawer inspection, he must list everything he wants first and I must agree!!!!
When Bagworm signed the stipulation, he was despondent and had a tragic smile on his repulsive face!!!! All that for $40 a month !!!!!!
Thank you so much for being there for me, propping me up, pushing and informing!! I couldn't wiat to come home and post!!!
This was just a little hearing, and the big stuff (trial or negotiations) is ahead, but my lawyer said that we are going to demiolish them!!! And he said that here will be no more fence jumping or cops threatening to shoot me because of false claims made by Bagworm!!!!
We won, and it was fun, too!!! I missed class because the case was held over, but I will explain the circumstances.
Thank you for your invaluable help and support!!!! I am getting free from that NH Bagworm with your help!!!!
Love and Peace,
Changing
Title: Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
Post by: JanetLG on October 22, 2007, 06:23:54 PM
Changing,
I am so very, very happy for you!!!
You deserve everything to be sorted out in your favour now.
I hope Bagworm feels absolutely gutted tonight.
It's 11.20pm here, and I have been waiting up to find out how things have gone with you today.
Yeeahhh!!!
Janet
Title: Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
Post by: isittoolate on October 22, 2007, 06:24:51 PM
Congratulations, Changing!
Ya Ya Ya doing the happy dance!! :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
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Love Izzy
Title: Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
Post by: Ami on October 22, 2007, 06:25:52 PM
WOW Changing, In my heart ,I knew that you would win BIG. You are so precious , Changing. I am so very, very happy for you. Sometimes "right" wins over "might".Bagworm reaped what he sowed--huh? Much love to you , Ami
Title: Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
Post by: lighter on October 22, 2007, 06:38:54 PM
Well that was immensly satisfying to read, lol.
(((CHANGING)))
::jumping up and down with joy::
And the very very very best part...... is that Bagworm is going to go to bed mumbling to himself tonight!
No more happy unrealistic fantasies about taking all your money and making you support him!
Oh woes he!
Poor poor Bagworm and his rediculouse moron attorney.
I loved the part where you listened to their conversation around the corner...... I know that intrigue.
Amazing that they seemed puzzled by your joy, shared by the distreauht wonman you comforted. They didn't recognize compassion or truth prevailing..... they think it's all a game.
Whoever lies the best is the winner...... but not so.... uh ho!
Congrats, changing, my friend!
Title: Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
Post by: changing on October 22, 2007, 06:39:30 PM
Janet, Izzy, Ami, Lighter-
Thank you for keeping watch for me- I am crying with joy and gratitude, I feel so proud to have such friends. This is how people should be treated in life, accepting one another when they are up or down and watching each other's backs- and I love it!!! It really makes the bitter less so and the sweet sweeter !!!Thank You and Bless You !!! I only hope that I can be there for you as well , amongst life's vagaries.
Love ,
Changing
Title: Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
Post by: finding peace on October 22, 2007, 06:40:01 PM
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Wonderful, wonderful news!
Changing - I am so happy for you!
Title: Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
Post by: Poppy Seed on October 22, 2007, 06:52:13 PM
I am throwing confetti and jumping with joy for you!!
Poppy
Title: Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
Post by: lighter on October 22, 2007, 06:56:12 PM
This thread title could be a country song, lol.
Title: Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
Post by: changing on October 22, 2007, 07:00:01 PM
Finding Peace and Poppyseed-
You have both held my arm as I walked shakily down my hellish dark hall and into the light of freedom from abuse and misery. It makes me so happy to share good news as well with you. Thank you so much for your posts.
Love and Hugs,
Changing
Title: Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
Post by: lighter on October 22, 2007, 07:29:08 PM
The only way this night could get better.... is if Lupita comes on and had a great day too!
No more bagworm in your dresser drawers. His stuff has been on the lawn for a while and he's such a piggy liar when he said you were denying him his things..... no more manipulating the cops by God I wish I could buy that fine attorney of yours a drink!
::singing:: Ding Dong the Bagworms.... ummmm.....
PEGGED! the bagworm's pegged, the Bagworm's PEGGED!
Ding Dong the bagworm has been pegggggged.
Ha!
Craggy old german witch voice.... singing....
"Who's da leetle mouuuusy munching on my houuusy?" I just love that one.... threw it in there for Halloween cheer!
I'm absolutely ecstatic! ::going to watch Courage the cowardly dog before bed::
Nite all.... sleep tight, ((changing)) You've changed into a confident butterly, haven't you, lol?
Title: Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
Post by: Iphi on October 22, 2007, 10:27:02 PM
Really great news! I'm very very happy for you changing.
Wonder if the bagworm is planning to stiff his attorney now.... yes most likely. :D
Title: Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
Post by: Hopalong on October 22, 2007, 10:30:06 PM
Oh my lord, Changing, this is SWEET to read!
I am just drooling with glee, must admit.
Right does sometimes prevail, and I'm so glad it's happening to you!!
I can't imagine what a fantastic lawyer YOU are going to be. You will always have this experience in your quiver to remember when you face clients who are dueling with Bagworms...
Good for you. Absurd that you're paying Bagworm even a nickel, much less $40/month...that part I don't understand...but if you are happy with it, so'm I!! :) :D :D :D
love Hops
Title: Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
Post by: Bella_French on October 22, 2007, 10:34:59 PM
This is such wonderful new Changing; thankyou so much for sharing such an uplifting story!
PS. I thought it was so cute the way you comforted the crying lady and gave her candy:) You are such a honey!
X Bella
Title: Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
Post by: Certain Hope on October 23, 2007, 09:33:04 AM
Oh, dear Changing :D :D :D I do soooo love to hear of N falling into the very pit he dug for his prey! Big hugs to you and prayers that the rest of this process breezes by just like a bit of fluff in the wind. I know how small a consolation is the settling, considering the bushels of havoc that NPD wreaks in the liives of those of us who try to relate to them as though that were possible... and yet it's cause for rejoicing to see some small measure of justice enforced, finally. Many blessings to you of peace and joy and fulfillment... every bit of the abundant life which is your inheritance!
With love, Carolyn
Title: Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
Post by: changing on October 23, 2007, 03:16:27 PM
Lighter, Iphi, Hoppy, Bella , Hope My Dears-
It is so wonderful to be able to share good news with my loved ones who understand the minutiea of the situation, and who picked me up and carried me or even drug me through rough places on the journey! I hope that someday I will have the honor of being there for you in turn.
The $40 siupport for Bagworm got the day ended, while arguing over $40 and $20 could have cost me $500.00 more- we will fight the entire issue next time in court (this was a stupid emergency hearing that was aborted by the court because there was no case, and the other side was admonished for dragging the poor disabled lady with her cane to court for a bogus reason to try to take away her little pittance of money under false pretenses and for wasting the court's time- but they were admonished not by the court, but by an underling! The court would not even countanence hearing them in the court proper, but sent then down the hall for their thrashing!! We will correct any outstanding injustices during the nexty round, with a more thought out case, not on the fly like this one.
Thank you all so much, I know that you know how grateful I am to you in so many ways.
Love and hugs,
Changing
Title: Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
Post by: Leah on October 23, 2007, 03:21:59 PM
Truly, I am so very happy for you (((( Changing ))))
You were in my thoughts throughout the day and I was absolutely delighted for you, when reading your account, soon after I got back home.
Love & Hugs,
Leah
Title: Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
Post by: changing on October 23, 2007, 03:27:14 PM
Leah-
My FOO could care less, and yet I feel so fortified! For someone like me , that you had worried for me and waited, is making me cry again- I am so grateful, and it really gives me inspiration.
Love to you,
Changing
Title: Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
Post by: lighter on October 23, 2007, 03:35:04 PM
I can't wait to hear about the next real hearing.
You guy's'll really be something to reckon with when you're completely loaded for bear and ready to tick tick tick off their rediculous requests, one by one.... in a neat little row.
I bet moron about sh*t his pants when he learned about Bagworm's undisclosed bank accounts, lol.
I bet he's no longer licking his chops when he thinks about taking your disability check.
Pigs.
I bet you turn into a first class kick ass attorney too; )
((Changing))
Title: Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
Post by: changing on October 23, 2007, 04:42:01 PM
Hi Lighter!!!
I could hear Moron asking "...and what is this...3469876545678?" a pause, and then Bagworm telling him what account it was- they seemed less than jubilant!
Got my grade from that one class I missed those days from (sfter I freaked from the cops and guns, etc)- not great grades, but I did the papers in 1 night, hiding from bagworm, etc, when I was utterly exhausted from 24 hour days! I think its excellent to have gotten this far and done "OK", although my classmates all want 100s- thank you for nudging me to stay when I was at my weakest! I will definitely improve on the next paper!
I hope all is well with you and your babies, Miss Lighter.
Love,
Changing
Title: Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
Post by: lighter on October 23, 2007, 05:26:08 PM
Good grades don't make good attorneys!
Book smarts don't make great attorneys!
It's the intestinal fortitude to go the extra mile.... the willingness to take a chance and wing it.... and be smart enough to pull it off... that makes a great attorney.
Also.... it's being really really really nice to all your fellow students..... casue they're gonna be the judges one day; )
::nodding::
heh
Title: Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
Post by: changing on October 23, 2007, 06:51:11 PM
Miss Lighter!
Thank you for your encouragement. I usually get excellent grades, and would not like this minumum grade, but I feel triumphant- under impossible conditons, I am squeaking by! And I will make up for lost time now.
I want the highest grade in the Bar exam...passing!!
Love to you and yours,
Changing
Title: Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
Post by: Ami on October 23, 2007, 07:10:05 PM
Dear Changing, It is amazing that you have done as well as you have with all the fires that you have to put out. I bet that you could win the prize for the 'student with the most stress".On this one, you would put them all to shame. Changing, I am so happy for you that s/times stories have a happy ending. Yours is ending as happily as it can with Bagworm. Your Lawyer is the Doctor of Divinity---Right? That is a classic touch. What a story you will have to inspire others . Changing----you Rock. Love Ami
Title: Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
Post by: Hopalong on October 23, 2007, 09:15:25 PM
And it may be our Changing who's the judge one day!
Hops
Title: Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
Post by: changing on October 23, 2007, 11:34:52 PM
My Ami and My Hoppy-
Thank yoiu so much for your loving posts, and for your consistent support and push for my enlightenment and freedom from N slavery!
Love You Both and Deepest Gratitude,
Changing
Title: Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
Post by: Heather on October 24, 2007, 11:02:10 AM
YAY!
I'm new here, so I don't know the history behind this story (but I would like to!)
Nonetheless, hurray!
Love, Heather
Title: Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
Post by: mudpuppy on October 24, 2007, 05:39:30 PM
i've said from the get-go that, while court is not a solution for everyone, with a little preparation and a lawyer who holds their feet to the fire Ns shrivel up and croak in court. The rumors and innuendo and fantasies they indulge in just cannot survive the antiseptic of light and evidentiary rules. They hate and fear court even while trying to use it as a weapon.
An N in the witness chair is a picture of death warmed over.
Congratulations changing! And here's urging you to pour on the coal. Once they're on the run is the worst time to let up.
mud
Title: Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
Post by: JanetLG on October 24, 2007, 05:47:24 PM
Never mind the coal!
Anyone got any petrol?
Title: Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
Post by: cats paw on October 24, 2007, 07:25:14 PM
changing,
Your story has been so inspiring, and it is wonderfully amazing that both you and Bagworm are getting justice.
cats paw
Title: Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
Post by: kaylebsmommy702 on October 24, 2007, 07:39:09 PM
Congrats changing!!! Yeah!!!! You go girl!!!! So happy for you- and yes victory is so sweet in these cases- I pray that I am as victorious as you were. Congrats again!!! And yes this is a wonderful place!
Title: Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
Post by: changing on October 25, 2007, 10:55:00 PM
Heather, Mud, Janet, Cat's Paw, Kayleb's Mommy-
Sorry that I did not give a more timely reply- I had major law school work and an emergency situation to handle (see reply to the ever prescient Mud)-
Thank you so much for your posts. The sincere support that you give me helps to melt away the incredible stress of the situation, and you are angels to be there for me.
Heather-Thank you so for your support. You may be new here , but you are certainly appreciated!!!! I hope to get to know you, and that everything in your life resolves beautifully!!! Keep posting, and the savvy and kind people here will be on your side!!!((((Heather))))
Mud- When you talk everyone should listen , just like they do with E.F. Hutton!!! Thank you for your wisdom and kindness- you are very special, as I am sure you know. And you are so very right (as usual) in your admonition!!! Bagworm tried to come by the house again- my lawyer shut him down immediately, and got another stipulation, and Bagworm's Moron attorney is now responsible in writing to keep him away and to make sure that they handle all matters through the lawyers only, no calls, no visits, no more demanding that I his pay bills, nada. Thank you so much, Mud.
Janet- You devilish thing you!!! Thank you for being there and for your snappy support and thoughts! Your creative mind and nature make me laugh and think, and have helped to get me through so many horrible nights with a smile! There is more to come, but this was a trial by fire and petrol, and the result left after the conflagration is a good foundation for the rest of the fight. The idea of your peaceful home with owls (and pet hair) just inspires me so!!!
Cat's Paw- Oh, I feel quite the fancy person to have Cat's Paw come out of lurking to support me! You are always a joy and a feline force for justice- Thank you and bless you in all things Kitty Paw! I feel better about the trials (literally and figuratively) to come, knowing that I have the love and understanding of such wonderful friends! Hope all goes well for you, Dear.
Kayleb's Mommy- You are so very precious to give me a boost... Please keep posting and we will support you with love, and the wise ones will help you so much as they have helped me. We will all pray that you find the strength, understanding and help that you need in life!!!((((Kayleb's Mommy))))
Love and Heartfelt Thanks,
Title: Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
Post by: changing on October 26, 2007, 04:31:15 PM
Dearest Shunned-
Thank you so much for kind post, and for following my wacky tale as it unfolds. Most people would never understand in a million years, and having an understanding person makes all the difference is figuring out what to do, and staying strong. Hope all is well with you!