Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board
Voicelessness and Emotional Survival => Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board => Topic started by: cats paw on January 07, 2008, 10:09:22 PM
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My mom died today, and I was with her.
Unable to write more at this time.
cats paw
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You are in my prayers and my thoughts.
May the God of all comfort give you comfort.
Sincere love to you,
Leah
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so sorry to hear of your loss. my thoughts and prayers to you and yours. sela
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I am so sorry, Cat---so, very sorry. Ami
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So very sorry, cat. My sympathies to you and the rest of the family.
Izzxy
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Oh sweet (((((((((((Kitty))))))))))) you are in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry and pray that Jesus will comfort you and give you peace.
Love,
Carolyn
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Boy oh boy! Love to you and prayers!
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tt
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Love and hugs to you cats paw. You don't have to talk. Thanks for letting us know though!!
My heart is with you.
X bella
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Cat's Paw,
I am so sorry.
I hope it comforts you that you were with her...
with love,
Hops
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((((((Dear Cat))))))
I am so sorry. You are in my prayers.
Peace
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Oh Cats Paw. I am so sorry. I am glad that she had you there when she passed, not alone. Bless You Cats Paw.
Love,
Changing
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Sorry for your loss!!!
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Cats Paw, I'm here for you when you need to talk or just a shoulder. Prayers are with you.
~Laura
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Cats Paw,
Thinking of you and hope you have the support you will need at this difficult time.
xxxxxxx
axa
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I'm very sorry, Cat's Paw. Best wishes,
Richard
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Cat's Paw,
I am so sorry for your loss, my heart goes out to you.
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SO so sorry, ((((catspaw))))
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((cats paw))
So very sorry for your loss and pain. Thinking of you during this difficult time.
With Sympathy seasons
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Dear sweet Cat's Paw - my heart is with you. I imagine that her death will open up so much about your emotional ties with her across your life. I pray that you will find true healing in this process. - yours GS
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It's such a concentrated piece of life, letting go.
Love to you, CPaw.
Sending strength, rest,
Hops
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Sorry for what you are going through cat's paw.
Prayers for you.
mud
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I'm so sorry for your deep loss. I hope during this time of grief you can hold onto those pleasant memories and good times you shared. I pray that you will keep the concerned thoughts and love from those in your life close to you as you work through your sadness and loss.
Take very special care of yourself....My prayers and thoughts are with you.
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I am so sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself and enjoy fond memories of your mom. We are here when you are ready to share.
Love, Beth
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I'm here for you during this time of sorrow and loss.
Currently, a lady from a ministry that I belong to, is also in the hospital. her cancer has returned and she has pneumonia. Our ministry is believing for a miracle for her, but most of us think she is going to depart soon. I understand how your heart feels right now.
Please lean on us at Vboard as much as you need to, dear.
~Laura
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Thinking of you ,Cat. Thanks for your compassion,on the board. I am sorry that you are hurting.It is so sad that your M was not able to give you warm memories.even at the end.It is so pitiful how N steals all the joy out of life and relationships, Cat. I am so sorry. Love Ami
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To All,
I have read your warm responses, and I appreciate this more than I can say. I will be able to talk more later, but it's too raw to explain right now. My mom did leave me with some good moments to cherish in the last couple of days- one of these was sincere
thanks when I did a couple of small things.
Busy with finalizing details- visitation is tomorrow, and funeral Friday.
cats paw
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Dear (((((( Cats Paw )))))
Those precious words of sincere thanks will remain locked in your heart as tender memories.
Will be thinking of you with prayerful thoughts.
Love, Leah
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((((catspaw))))
You might want to write something out.... whatever you still need to say or have her take with her.... include pictures and maybe a drawing if you like that sort of thing.
It always helps me with grieving..... to put things down in words and sit with them like that.
Comforting to remember the things I sent along with my loved ones..... things that I put love into for their jouney.
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((((((((((((Cat)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) Sending strength to you, Ami
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Dear Cat, hope that with time you feel more encouraged to share about your mom and your experience towards the end. Everybody loves you here and miss you deeply. The Lord will walk with you in these moments of pain.
We will keep you in our prayers.
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Dear ((( Cats Paw )))
You are very much in my heart and thoughts today, Friday.
May the Lord God give you comfort, and your family.
Love, Leah
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Sorry for your loss, take good care of yourself as you're grieving- I think it lowers the immune system and makes us very vulnerable.
When my mother died I had a tearful 'conversation' with her out in the woods and wrote a poem. I called her mother and had a long talk with my half-sister; neither lead to any relationship-building but it was positive for that point at least.
I was so sad the opportunity for reconciliation or relationship was gone, but I am glad she is at peace, she was very troubled.
Your good memories in the last days are something precious to cherish.
Love
~W
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Dear KittyFoot,
I'm thinking of you and saying special prayers for your comfort and peace.
With love,
Carolyn
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Cats Paw,
Sometimes a sincere thanks can be an apology.
I am thinking of you every day when I look at the board,
and I see your thread title, and I think of perspective.
with love,
Hops
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My mom also died January 7th and I wasn't with her, due to distance factor.
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Sorry to hear that, kelli.
Would you like to start a new thread and tell us about your relationship with her?
How you're doing?
Welcome and looking forward to hearing from you.
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Just letting everyone know that your ongoing support is so touching that it brings me to tears.
I still can't write much, much less read or respond to other's posts, and it feels so wonderful to know it's still ok to check in.
kelli - was your mom ill? I still can't believe mine is gone. I hope you'll return to write when you're able.
cats paw
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My most sincere sympathy, Catspaw. A sad time for you.
Take care.
Hermes
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(((((((((KittyFoot)))))))) It is just so good to know you're here and receiving some measure of comfort.
Dear (((((((((Kelli))))))))) Welcome to the group.
My sympathies on your loss of your mom. I hope that you've not been alone in dealing with the aftermath... and that you'll share with us here as you're able.
With love,
Carolyn
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tt
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Kelli,
My deepest sympathy goes out to you.
tt