Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board
Voicelessness and Emotional Survival => Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board => Topic started by: Hermes on January 28, 2008, 04:30:31 PM
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Hello to all:
It is wonderful to be able to spend time in one's own company, to seek out solitude.
But, loneliness is another matter entirely.
Hermes
Found this article:
""Loneliness is a negative state, marked by a sense of isolation. One feels that something is missing. It is possible to be with people and still feel lonely—perhaps the most bitter form of loneliness.
Solitude is the state of being alone without being lonely. It is a positive and constructive state of engagement with oneself. Solitude is desirable, a state of being alone where you provide yourself wonderful and sufficient company."
"Solitude is a time that can be used for reflection, inner searching or growth or enjoyment of some kind. Deep reading requires solitude, so does experiencing the beauty of nature. Thinking and creativity usually do too.
Loneliness is harsh, punishment, a deficiency state, a state of discontent marked by a sense of estrangement, an awareness of excess aloneness."
http://psychologytoday.com/articles/index.php?term=pto-2965.html
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A good balance of enjoying solitude, and interraction with the rest of the human race.
I love the alone moments, the quiet in the midst of the bustle of life. I also love being out there living.
Hermes