Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board
Voicelessness and Emotional Survival => Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board => Topic started by: write on February 14, 2008, 05:51:03 PM
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I'm going to delete my membership again, I feel like this place also the eharmony thing have begun to take over the last few days, and I don't like that compulsive side of me.
Don't think the eharmony is working actually, the profile is excellent, very accurate, but other settings don't seem to come up with good matches, people with clearly nothing in common in areas I have specified as important.It also makes me feel a bit like I am blowing perfectly good people off because they aren't 'perfect' and soemthing still doesn't feel quite right. It has taught me how to look at the person before giving in to attraction, it has taught me what to look for, what to ask. But it still hasn't recovered that sense of fun about the whole thing, I still feel too serious and just waiting for an abusive or potentially abusive scenario...maybe I have to stop trying to do love relationships, for now anyway, clearly they are not my thing.
Take care everyone, much love to all and I'll come back in a few months, in the summer when my busy life calms down a bit and i've got a grip on the computer use again.
Love
~Write
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Dear Write,
You are so disciplined. I find myself spending much more time here than I would were I not physically exhausted and pretty much home bound because of my mom's illness and the need to be close by for emergencies. Wish I could take off to the South of Spain and sit in the sun for a month or two.
You take care, dear one.
tt
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Give up my computer--NO way(lol)!Good Luck, Write. Look forward to hearing from you soon. Love Ami
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Take good care of you, Write
Love, Leah x
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No! I need my oldbie to stay! I met my H on match.com. Of course they did not screen us by compatibility and that is evident to me now but we are ok. How bout you do not delete you just stay away until things settle down?
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I feel like I am losing an old friend. Somehow your saying goodbye has really hit me hard. Though I have not posted you much these past few weeks I have taken such comfort in your presence. I feel a connection in hearing about the ups and downs with your former husband and with your son and about parts of your life. There will be a real void where WRITE has been.
I might have to post some WRITE (guest) fake posts just to pretend fill those holes. Don't stay away too long - not all the way to summer.