Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board
Voicelessness and Emotional Survival => Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board => Topic started by: reallyME on February 21, 2008, 10:56:38 PM
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nan,
Thank you for sharing your story. I'm so sad that you went through all that pain and no, it was not your fault about your father at all. I understand your fear about the doll too. I can remember similar situations in my own life where I felt very afraid like that. Your brother was no brother at all. What a truly MONSTEROUS creature! It's all going to be ok. You are in a good place with people who will encourage you and love you through to healing.
BLessya,
~Laura
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Laura - I appreciate the kind words. Sometimes I think I need to sit down with my brother just to let him know the impact his cruelty has had on me all these years -- like maybe bringing it out into the open would help somehow. But the more I think about it, I'm sure he just wouldn't get it -- he'd just laught about it or minimize it, rationalize it, etc. He's definitely an N, too, like my mom and oldest brother. He's had a lot of relationship problems throughout his life, very angry and manipulative sort of person. I remember reading that it's best just to stay clear of N's as much as possible - sounds like good advice.
Nan
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Kind of hard to do when they are in your family or immediate places you congregate, but yes, it's best to steer clear and avoid them and pray.