Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board
Voicelessness and Emotional Survival => Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board => Topic started by: Elaine1966 on February 29, 2008, 11:22:53 PM
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Well group,
My NEx fiance went to counseling today and advised he would do whatever it took to keep me. He will continue with his therapy. I was proud of him until now.
He had the password to my business email and was constantly reading it accusing me of sleeping with my clients, so I changed the password as that is confidential. And there is NOTHING going on with my clients or colleagues. I got accused because I told one of my clients, "chow" at the end of my letter to him. To one of my colleagues, who is a very dear friend of mine and old enough to be my father, xoxoxoxo at the end of my letter to him.....so now I must be sleeping with them LOL!
Anyways, changed the password and now he is furious and said he is done with me.....can you believe that? I am the one who is trying to leave him. So now, because I won't give him the new password, I am guilty and he is done with me.
I just don't get it! :?
I think it's going to be a rough weekend!
Elaine
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Remember the story of the 6's? N's behave like 6-year olds.
Call his bluff.
Say, "OK. Guess I'm not good enough for you. Bye."
Just see how fast he will back-pedal. 3 seconds?
Dandylife
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Oh Elaine,
I think you got your answer. IF you go forward,it will be by ignoring glaring red flags. Someday, you will rue the day you didn;t listen to yourself and others(the board)IMO.
I had thousands of red flags before I married my H. EVEN my N M told me to run,but I was too immature.
I paid and paid and paid.
Compost what seems right to you. Hope I was not too harsh. Ami
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Yes my H is like this too. The best thing is to call his bluff-at first he will say GOOD and then when you stay firm he will come running back!