Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board

Voicelessness and Emotional Survival => Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board => Topic started by: lighter on April 15, 2008, 04:55:32 AM

Title: Catspaw.... we're ready when you are
Post by: lighter on April 15, 2008, 04:55:32 AM

Still standing by the fire..... waiting. 

((catspaw))

Title: Re: Catspaw.... we're ready when you are
Post by: lighter on April 19, 2008, 10:55:14 AM

Hope your'e OK, kittypaw.

Title: Re: Catspaw.... we're ready when you are
Post by: lighter on April 23, 2008, 10:30:10 AM

When your reasons lift.....

the circle's waiting.

Light

Title: Re: Catspaw.... we're ready when you are
Post by: cats paw on April 23, 2008, 11:03:56 AM

  Thanks for thinking of me. 

  My reasons for not posting are many.

  One of my reasons is that I don't have a lot to give right now.  I check in and read, but I don't write.

  Another one of my reasons is that realspace is taking up a lot of time.

  Lastly, though I need to let go of regret, I'm not ready to let go of my mom yet.  I will write more about my regrets when
  I'm able to do so coherently.

cats paw

 

Title: Re: Catspaw.... we're ready when you are
Post by: lighter on April 23, 2008, 11:11:26 AM

When you're ready.... then you let go of what needs to be released?

I do want to say..... that you don't have to let go of your mother.

She's yours..... that won't ever change.

Acceptance and detachment don't have to be about giving her up.... do they?

Maybe the ritual needs to shift.....?

We can shift our beliefs, accept and detach from difficult emotions..... without letting your mother go?

Not sure but..... 

take your time and journal these feelings out till clarity finds you.

It'll be OK.