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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival => Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board => Topic started by: gratitude28 on April 24, 2008, 10:11:03 AM

Title: Always Having to Wonder Why???????
Post by: gratitude28 on April 24, 2008, 10:11:03 AM

I wish I could go NC. I wish I could just not deal with my FOO any longer.
Every time they contact me, I have to wonder, "Why?"
My sister is pregnant now. I am happy for her. Now my family is contacting me. I guess they are worried it will seem they are paying more attention to her.
There has to be a reason for every call. There is never a "just because." It is never a peaceful conversation.
I wish we could just stop pretending.
Don't you all just get tired of it??????????

Title: Re: Always Having to Wonder Why???????
Post by: towrite on April 24, 2008, 10:16:55 AM

Oh, God , YES!  I hate the falseness - when people do something towards you and pretend it's for you, when you know totally that it has nothing to do with you. I hear you, Grats. Hard to swallow -- 'cept don't let it poison your good spirit.