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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival => Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board => Topic started by: Lupita on July 19, 2008, 11:21:26 AM

Title: Lighter, where are you?
Post by: Lupita on July 19, 2008, 11:21:26 AM: Lighter, where are you? How is everything going? How are you? How are your children?

Love to you.

God bless!!!
Title: Re: Lighter, where are you?
Post by: Lupita on July 21, 2008, 11:21:19 AM: Does anybody know where is Lighter?

Lighter, how are you girl?

Can you please at least send a message?

Love to you, parying for you.
Title: Re: Lighter, where are you?
Post by: Leah on July 21, 2008, 11:42:49 AM: Hi Lupita,

Lighter posted a couple of days ago on her thread ... busy etc ....... http://www.voicelessness.com/disc3//index.php?topic=8214.msg133440#msg133440 (http://www.voicelessness.com/disc3//index.php?topic=8214.msg133440#msg133440)

Leah x
Title: Re: Lighter, where are you?
Post by: Lupita on July 21, 2008, 05:46:00 PM: Thank you Lea, that was the 18th and today is the 21. That means three days, which is not very usual, she ised to be a very active poster, I miss that.

Hope you are well, Lighter, or at list you are surviving.
Title: Re: Lighter, where are you?
Post by: Lupita on July 23, 2008, 10:02:59 AM: Today is 23. That makes it five days.

Hope in the Lord that Lighter is surviving every difficulty, overcoming every obstacle.

God bless!
Title: Re: Lighter, where are you?
Post by: Lupita on July 24, 2008, 12:18:56 PM: Today is 24, and that makes six days.

:(
Title: Re: Lighter, where are you?
Post by: Lupita on July 25, 2008, 12:24:53 PM: Today is the 25th and that makes seven days.

:(
Title: Re: Lighter, where are you?
Post by: Overcomer on July 27, 2008, 11:13:41 AM: Lighter has not been on since the 18th......my thought is she is dealing with some major things.....
Title: Re: Lighter, where are you?
Post by: Lupita on July 28, 2008, 11:52:43 AM: Today is Monday 28, and now it is ten days.

I am very concerned.

Please, everybody, pray for Lighter.
Title: Re: Lighter, where are you?
Post by: Izzy_*now* on July 29, 2008, 07:28:24 PM: hi Lighter (http://www.slrkelowna.ca/starw.gif)

If you've had time to come on board, please don't take this as an order/directive to explain yourself.!! We all need a rest now and then and I sure am taking my time posting, so Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah!

Nobody asks about when I am missing. Hops is having a rest? Someone unnamed is not posting articles for 4 days! I have a new therapist, so you can read my posts!

Just take care of you and the girls.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Hug and kiss them a thousand time over from me and from you and from everyone here. They know they are loved. Read my movie post--'school for scoundrels'--nutty movie but we always learn, no matter what!

Love
(http://www.slrkelowna.ca/izzy.gif)(http://www.slrkelowna.ca/starw.gif)
Title: Re: Lighter, where are you?
Post by: Ami on July 30, 2008, 07:38:21 AM: The person who posts the articles has a lot to say, in my humble opinion. Ami
Title: Re: Lighter, where are you?
Post by: Izzy_*now* on July 30, 2008, 01:50:16 PM: now, now Ami, calm down breathe deeply, relax.
The point of my post was the missing people, and following my NC rule by not mentioning names

You, on the other hand, can mention her name and not sound like you are looking for another 'war of the board?"
I see changing and tt are also on vacation.The board is not moving quickly at all.
Izzy
Title: Re: Lighter, where are you?
Post by: sKePTiKal on July 30, 2008, 02:46:34 PM: I think we should just rename this thread : Candles for Lighter.

Lupita - she's OK, really! She needed a break, I remember something about moving...

I was thinking we should keep this thread going and add our good wishes, prayers, jokes, for her. Does that sound like a good idea? Keep the thread on page 1, till she DOES get a chance to drop by again.

We DO MISS YOU, Lighter... and hope things are well.

Iz- I agree, things have been slow... but it's summer and most people travel or vacation, as you've pointed out. Summer is the busy time for us in IT at university (so I've been chained to my computer)... I won't take off for the beach until the first 2 weeks of October. And I don't think I posted at all during vacation last year...
Title: Re: Lighter, where are you?
Post by: Lupita on July 31, 2008, 11:35:13 AM: Just to keep this in first page so she can see it if she has a chance. I know that Light has big family problems. So, I will just try to keep this in first page so che can see it just in case she has a chance.

Today is the 31. It is now 13 days.

I have not posted my self either. I am a little discourage.

Love toy ou all.

:(
Title: Re: Lighter, where are you?
Post by: lighter on July 31, 2008, 12:20:50 PM: Lupita.... Izz.... Amber..... Overcomer and Leah...

I just have a sec to touch base.... been without internet during the move.

Thanks for the prayers and postive thoughts.

I can't check the board right now, no time.....

but wanted to let you know that I'm moved and settling in.

::waving:: I'll be back soon.

Lighter
Title: Re: Lighter, where are you?
Post by: Overcomer on July 31, 2008, 04:33:44 PM: She's back! Hi Lighter!
Title: Re: Lighter, where are you?
Post by: lighter on August 01, 2008, 10:37:11 AM: Hey... the girls are doing art projects and I'm taking a moment to catch up with the board.

Anything in particular I missed?

Hope all are well.

We're doing OK here.

Lighter
Title: Re: Lighter, where are you?
Post by: Certain Hope on August 01, 2008, 10:53:03 AM: Welcome back, Lighter... and happy housewarming.

All is well around these parts... but I haven't been on board much lately either, so also am out of the loop.

Glad to know you're settling in.

Carolyn
Title: Re: Lighter, where are you?
Post by: lighter on August 01, 2008, 10:56:08 AM: Glad you're doing OK, Carolyn.

Maybe everyone will come back after the summer and catch us all up.

Lighter
Title: Re: Lighter, where are you?
Post by: sKePTiKal on August 01, 2008, 11:46:24 AM: It's actually been pretty quiet.

SS is making fantasic progress though.
And LilyCat is making some important contributions too.
Hops is back now from the "left" coast...

I've been a regular chatty-cathy... and have been working with SS...we've been giving each other legs up on each other's paths...
still the same old same old with me, except today is my first 24 hours without nicotine.
Title: Re: Lighter, where are you?
Post by: lighter on August 01, 2008, 11:48:46 AM: Quote from: PhoenixRising on August 01, 2008, 11:46:24 AM

.....still the same old same old with me, except today is my first 24 hours without nicotine.

: )
Title: Re: Lighter, where are you?
Post by: lighter on August 01, 2008, 11:57:47 AM: I want to slip a discreet update in, re: changing:

Good week, she's been making big decisions (her attorney is serving her well) and, as always, is her same competent very capable self.

Situation looks postive if she can remain physically safe.

Her TPO is still in place..... but that's only paper.

Lighter
Title: Re: Lighter, where are you?
Post by: Certain Hope on August 01, 2008, 12:07:58 PM: Thanks, Lighter. I was wondering.

Carolyn
Title: Re: Lighter, where are you?
Post by: Lupita on August 02, 2008, 11:46:37 AM: Thank you Lighter. Thank you so much for replying. I missed you so much. I am so glad you are back and "OK".

I started therapy for ten dollars a session with the help of Hopalong. I love it!!! I had already six sessions and she is wonderful.

She said that I had a sign on my forhead that said abuse me please and I have to change it for do not even try.

LOL

Love you.
Title: Re: Lighter, where are you?
Post by: lighter on August 02, 2008, 12:20:21 PM: Lupe! Wonderful news about T!

::getting out big box of paint, markers, stickers and stencils::

I'm looking forward to seeing the sign on your forhead change too: )

Light
Title: Re: Lighter, where are you?
Post by: axa on August 03, 2008, 08:01:39 AM: Lupita,

I am pleased to hear that you have found a therapist to help you. Well done. Enjoy the support and no doubt you will blossom.

Take care,

axa
Title: Re: Lighter, where are you?
Post by: Lupita on August 03, 2008, 11:10:21 PM: It is strange when s/one you care about takes a break. You feel like you lost a friend and cannot do the usual to find them, such as call.

I am quoting these words from Ami because I was impressed that she expressed something I was feeling when Lighter was missing.

I felt strange, and did not know how to express it and now Ami did it.
Title: Re: Lighter, where are you?
Post by: Lupita on August 03, 2008, 11:12:00 PM: Thank you Axa.

Thanks for your response and wishes of well.

God bless.
Title: Re: Lighter, where are you?
Post by: lighter on August 06, 2008, 09:17:41 PM: Lupita:

I feel odd when folkes take a break too......

sometimes it's harder than others.

Thanks for checking on me..... it's appreciated: )

Lighter
Title: Re: Lighter, where are you?
Post by: Lupita on August 07, 2008, 01:10:57 PM: Well Lighter, I feel chemestry with your friendship. I guess sick to sick calling, because LOL you know we have problems. And that chemestry exist in friends too, not only dates.
Title: Re: Lighter, where are you?
Post by: lighter on August 07, 2008, 04:16:44 PM: Lupita:

Here's how I feel about that.

I responded to the pain in your posts...

IMO....

to your very apparent desire for knowledge and relief.

I've seen you extend yourself to others.

We've both reached out for help on this forum, and thank God for it.

I don't see "sick calling out to sick."

I see grace and humanity.

Lighter