Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board
Voicelessness and Emotional Survival => Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board => Topic started by: lighter on August 30, 2008, 11:01:45 AM
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The kids are back in school..... they've adjusted well and seem to be doing fine.
The comfort of familiar faces and routines...
piano lessons.....
bedtime rituals.....
playdates......
are a good thing.
The storms are bringing cooler days,
only to be replaced by very humid 95 degree days.
So... now I'm longing for the fall in earnest.
I haven't planted anything lately, besides herbs on the windowsill.
The basils still fine....
the oregano.....
not so much.
We've been cooking together, the girls and I.
Publix sells pizza dough in the bakery department.
I blend up a can of tomatoes, mit basil, and we do a very thin layer over pizza dough (the girls have managed to spread thinly over a buttered cookie sheet.) It takes a lot of patience and I'm always amazed at the wonderful job they do.
We prefer straight shredded mazzarella. Mexican blends aren't acceptable.
::shaking head::
Turkey Pepperoni is pretty good.
I'm having great luck with peppers, mushrooms, onions and a good drizzle of olive oil.... made one for the church picnic last Sunday. Crunchy and yummy. Also made 3 sky blue frosted dark chocolate cakes, for the cakewalk, and we each did artists' version of frosted artwork.
One was SKY BEE, another was CRAZY CAKE and the last was FRIED EGGS IN THE SKY. Lovely, each one.
We had a bit of success with homeade calzones. They really were nice.
450degrees.... I flipped them after 10 minutes but will check them earlier next time as they were a little on the "too carmelized" side.
Right now we're going through homeade doughnut recipes. I'm looking for something similar to my farmhouse grandma's yeast raised version.
We have a visit with Auntie Helen planned later today.
The Botanical Garden and a neighborhood picnic/pool party are on the agenda.
Paperwork's under control..... computer billpay has been extremely helpful.
The house is well organized but must be diligent as space is very limited.
We spent 3 hours at the pool yesterday..... savoring the cool. It's very nice and we usually have it to ourselves.
Well, that's my update.
Lighter
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Hi Lighter
Your message is so homey and peaceful, to me. It's a far cry to describe my daily doings, especially about cooking.
Yes, did my laundry and the whilte clam diggers are put away until next year.
Keep well, my friend
Love
Izzy
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Lighter:
What a truly lovely picture you paint!! How lucky you are to have children to make pizza with, grow a garden with, splash in a pool with! How lucky you are to have love in your life!
Personally, I dread the fall. Summer is my season...and because of a Nboss, I missed the entire summer having to work every moment.....But still I so appreciate the sunshine, the memories I have of times at the beach and pool...My moniker here is not SunBlue for nothing!
For me, a lifelong depressive, fall and winter brings increases sadness and darkness. I can appreciate the beauty of the colorful falling leaves....but I'd so rather see the lush green of summer lawns, the bright colors of flowers that bloom from May through August, and most of all, the rich blues and aquas of swimming pools and beaches.
Perhaps it is because of my current melancholy and lonely mood....but I mourn this soon-to-be passing from summer to fall. I think children help with that...There's always something to look forward to with them....When you're alone, there is not.
But I can imagine the laughter and smiles in your kitchen as you prepared the dough for your scrumptious pizzas....the sensation of the warm son and cool water on your skin as you played at the pool....
I hope you can continue to relish those moments.....Some days, it's hard to keep life in perspective, to remember what's important....In your post, you did that very well.
Hope all is going well with you and that many more of these lovely moment continue to come your way.....
SUNBlue
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((Sun:))
I wish the crisp cool fall air brought you relief from the heat....
and happiness that Halloween and Thanksgiving are on the way.
About the darker months.... have you checked out the SAD lights yet?
Maybe they'll help?
Izzy...... what comes out of the closet..... after the clamdiggers are put away?
::picturing Izzy sandwiched between Bob and Doug McKenzie::
Can't be easy.... dressing for the Great White North.
Lighter
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Ha ha h a h a ha h aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
I am so glad you know Bob and Doug Mackenzie!!!!
I love them and they had great skits!
For a little while, in the still lovely weather, I can wear my navy, or black and white checked or funny striped clam diiggers and not glare on the streets. I was out in the striped ones today! (I don't have a white purse or shoes to give up after Labour Day.)
Next will come slacks and I tell you truthfully, I need slacks, beyond belief. I have only 2 pr black slacks that are 'terribly suitable' but they are 'ruined' from ankle and leg casts. My better slacks are 'just not right any more'--tan, blue, grey and more that are good but 'not me'.
A-shopping I must go.................and should have last fall, for the winter (which I spent in black slacks and a bad leg.)
I have a great black and gray winter jacket. I'm fine with one, but last year went out one day in a light squall jacket on a cold cold cold day so stopped at a store and bought a red parka. Maybe I will wear that one this winter.
In my 'hey day', I had lots, but now I need only one or two of things to get me by--still haven't unpacked all my sweaters from 2 winters ago.
eh? Ya eh? wanna beer?
Love
Izzy
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::picturing Izzy sandwiched between Doug and Bob... wearing a red parka::
You also have a stocking cap, with built in earmuffs, and large fuzzy ball, perched atop.
Where do you plan to go shopping? Or do you mail order and return?
Light
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Dear Light:
I do not understand your update. But I enjoy so much hearing about you. Although I do not understand it, it lets me know that you are doing fine and your children are doing fine.
That is good enough.
God bless you so much!
I would be so sad if I do not hear from you.
The news from Dr G really made me sad.
I hope that we develop any kind os system to stay in touch with each other just in case.
Love to you!
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Lupita: My children are adjusting well and that's the main focus of my life right now.
As for this board's future....... I hope whatever happens that something good, and lasting, will come from it.
No doubt there will be ideas for keeping in touch.
I feel hopeful about this (and imagine this board could be the beginning, not the end, of positive things.)
Lighter
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Hi Lighter-
Sounds like such a fun time- and the fresh pizza dough is such a good idea. Still feels like summer here.
I didn't think anyone did cakewalks any more...What did Crazy Cake and Eggs in the Sky look like, and what did you use to paint them with? Did you get a cake? I would love a coconut cake right about now... You are such a good mom!
Love From Your Friend,
Changing
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Hi Izz...
How about ordering stuff online?
I love doing that. So decadent.
I can't do it much anymore but it's quite amazing the deals one can find.
xo
Hops
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HI , HOPE I'M NOT HIJACKING THIS THREAD, JUST A QUICK NOTE TO IZZY REGARDING BEER-
Unfortunately, I have never had the pleasure of drinking beer, but did come across a copule of extremely funny beer songs in a movie I checked out from the library and jotted them down for you Miss Izzy- "You Can Count on Beer" and "Beer Drinking Christians"- I found them almost pathologically funny!!!!
Love To All,
Changing
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changing:
We iced the cakes in skyblue homeade buttercream frosting and had white buttercream and canned yellow on hand..... a bit of confettie and black sprinkles rounded out our palet.
That's how we came up with our cakes. My youngest dalloped the white icing, cloudlike, then put yellow circles in each. FRIED EGGS IN THE SKY was the picture it created.
I made a bee with black sugar sprinkles and yellow icing, thus, SKYBEE was born and rounded out with some white clouds to float among.
My oldest just went crazy with the white and yellow icings then crazy with the confetti sprinkles then titled it CRAZY CAKE very appropriately, IMO.
We've been doing some painting on the lanai. The girls are using actual canvases, which I intend to hang in our home. Lots more of that planned with fall's cool on the way.
How about an update from you?
Lighter
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Hello My Friend Lighter-
The cake decorating and painting sounds so fun and absorbing!!! I got a strange urge to do some sketches in watercolor pencils- sketched a friend's two dogs, Tina and Rio, and I enjoyed the efforts quite a lot. I like the forgiving nature of the watercolor pencils, which can be blended, erased, wet, etc for different effects and are readily portable. I did the backgrounds in a sort of turquisey- greeny wash. This is first downtimw that I have had in quite a while and everything seems compelling and fun...
Love,
Changing
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Hey Changing:
I don't get to the board much lately but so glad to read you're painting.
Never used water color pencils..... I like to draw in pencil but haven't done it in many years.
Very nice to see you posting.
Hope you're doing well.
Lighter
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Hi Friend Lighter-
I am doing better, thanks so much to you and Our Izzy. I still get sickened and numb occassionally, but have accepted the fact that holding onto my original plans until the divorce was finalized, etc was not a viable option, so I have let go a bit and am not punishing and denying myself as much. Thank you for being there for me when I became desperate...I owe you!
Have a warm and happy fall- you deserve it!
Oh, and try the watercolor pencils- they are so versatile and fun!
Love to You and the Babies!!!!
C.
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Lighter,
So nice to hear you and the kids are enjoying crafts and delicious cooking and pseudo-fall (if it's 95 degrees - you must live near me somewhere - especially with the mention of Publix, which I had never heard of before I moved here). I am glad school is here too, although we are busy, busy, busy.
Izzy,
I LOVE Bob and Doug Mackenzie!!!! Love their 12 days of Christmas song :) Have you also heard Weird Al's Canadian Idiot song? It is a parody of American Idiot. It is so funny!!! He is pretty popular in Canada! You should listen to it. He does pick on one thing that you all brought into being - Celene Dion (blech!!).
Nice thread... thanks Lighter :)
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hi Beth.
Yes have heard 'Weird Al' and the Idiot song. He is very funny, but I need the words, so the music I like is slow enough that (a 69 yr. old) one can understand the lyrics, Did you listen to "Weird Al" One More Minute ---oh so romantic!
oh yes and arghh to Celine Dion.
I do like the Idiot's line
"See their map hovering over us"
"American Idiot" is too 'crash, boom' for me. I was raised on '50s,'60s, Jim Reeves, Eddy Arnold, Johnny Cash, etc.
Canadian money does look funny sometimes, but then so does American look all alike.
xx
Izzy
hi lighter
Again!
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Oh Izzy, then you will love the song "Close But No Cigar" by Weird Al and also his "Don't Download This Song." If you go to myspace you can listen to the there. One is a lovely (snicker) ballad :) Also, for great hilarity, watch Weird Al TV on YouTube when he interviews Celene Dion :)
"Canadian Idiot"
Don't wanna be a Canadian idiot
Don't wanna be some beer swillin' hockey nut
And do I look like some frostbitten hose-head?
I never learned my alphabet from A to Zed
They all live on donuts and moose meat
And they leave the house without packin' heat
Never even bring their guns to the mall
And you know what else is too funny?
Their stupid Monopoly money
Can't take 'em seriously at all
Well maple syrup and snow's what they export
They treat curling just like it's a real sport
They think their silly accent is so cute
Can't understand a thing they're talkin' aboot
Sure they got their national health care
Cheaper meds, low crime rates and clean air
Then again well they got Celine Dion
Eat their weight in Kraft macaroni
And dream of drivin' a Zamboni
All over Saskatchewan
Don't wanna be a Canadian idiot
Won't figure out their temperature in Celsius
See the map, they're hoverin' right over us
Tell you the truth, it makes me kinda nervous
Always hear the same kind of story
Break their nose and they'll just say "sorry"
Tell me what kind of freaks are that polite?
It's gotta mean they're all up to somethin'
So quick, before they see it comin'
Time for a pre-emptive strike!
Lots of love,
Beth
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GREAT!
Thanks Beth
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We saw him in concert and he had a cannon at the end with streamers in Canada's colors. It was so much fun.