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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival => Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board => Topic started by: Overcomer on June 06, 2009, 11:21:57 AM

Title: Checking in
Post by: Overcomer on June 06, 2009, 11:21:57 AM

Hi all!!  Haven't been here for awhile.  Happy to see it is open to all again.  My life is basically going pretty well.  I guess I have successfully diffused the difficulty with my mom and am making serious strides with my husband.

I am going in for a consult this Monday for a probable hysterectomy.  The final thing that will ultimately make my mind, soul AND body all ok.  I have lived with pain for years and it was exacerbated by all the stress.......

Things are going well.  My daughter just graduated from high school.  My other daughter is married and has a baby.....love the grandchild!!

My third daughter's last day of school was yesterday so more sleep on the horizon.....a six week recovery from surgery.......all good......

Title: Re: Checking in
Post by: Ami on June 06, 2009, 02:41:17 PM

So glad to hear from you, Kelly!!!!              Ami

Title: Re: Checking in
Post by: gratitude28 on June 08, 2009, 09:54:04 AM

You sound so much more level, Kelly!!! It is wonderful to see how your perceptions have changed and how you view life now!!!! I hope you are feeling peace and happiness!!
((((((((((((((((())))))))))))))))
Beth

Title: Re: Checking in
Post by: Ami on June 08, 2009, 11:40:06 AM

Keep us updated  (((Kelly))).                 

Title: Re: Checking in
Post by: Gaining Strength on June 08, 2009, 02:31:04 PM

Happy anniversary Overcomer!!!

Title: Re: Checking in
Post by: Hopalong on June 08, 2009, 10:28:37 PM

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I have successfully diffused the difficulty with my mom and am making serious strides with my husband

Enormous goals, huge huge accomplishments!

Sure will enjoy hearing how it happened, when you can.

(((((((Kelly)))))))) BRAVO!

Hops

Title: Re: Checking in
Post by: Overcomer on June 09, 2009, 11:37:44 PM

Thanks for all the positive reinforcement gals!!  It all stemmed from me leaving the store and being ok with working at the furniture store.  I was there three months and my mom realized I was not coming back.........in desperation she hired these high priced consultants who basically told her to do what I had been telling her for years.  Only when she agreed to REALLY retire, I went back.....and it is good cuz I could have never taken so much time off for the hysterectomy at the furniture store......mom will never admit they validated me.............she is actually rewriting history in her mind....delusional but I am ok with it if she does not project stuff on me etc.


My H?  I told him I was contacting a lawyer......that I had had enough....................he has straightened up, found a great job and is doing so much better (albeit it still boring....)

So I am doing much better, thank you very much!!

Kelly