Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board
Voicelessness and Emotional Survival => Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board => Topic started by: Portia on January 05, 2010, 07:14:23 PM
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Well Hops, warrior P just came out, and she's more warrior-like than I remember. Maybe you're correct? It's thanks to this board and the members herein that, when I was subjected to abuse today, I recognised it as such, almost instantly. A few years back I couldn't have recognised, processed, and named such abuse and known I was right. And guess what. It has made me furious. The actual issue is no big deal, but to give you an idea, my psychiatrist attempted to shame, blame, guilt-trip and bully me. The more this persisted, the more resolute I became to whump that person's ass for good, and where it hurts (er..kind of on the ass, I guess). And this is my point: people push P to her limits and eventually she will retaliate against abuse, in full 'battle' dress, with any available back-up, whether brains, brawn or those wonderful 'words that are written down' and she will go to war. In the end the users and abusers are complete losers. But it's so messy, it's so emotion-and-time-consuming, it's unwanted aggravation and I pretty much wish it did not happen. But hey when it does, well, what can a girl do? Somebody has to act. And there ain't no shortage of entitlement monsters who think they can go around as though the world is their fecking playground. I tell ya: Other People, there's tha problem! <tips up stetson with gun-barrel> Walk on, hoss....
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What happened,if you could explain? I am so leery of helping professionals cuz if you are NOT strong, you can be abused, made worse and not even know it . Ami
PS- Dr G even talks about this in his essays if I remember correctly
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I can explain Ami but would prefer not to on the board. I can PM you if you like. Either way, thanks for your reply x
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Please PM me, Portia.
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I'm really sorry, Miz P. Warrior One.
Regardless of who was right, what a loss to feel bullied by a therapist...
Such an intimate relationship and then--unsafe!
Ow upon ow.
love,
Hops