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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival => Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board => Topic started by: Nonameanymore on January 11, 2010, 12:21:09 PM

Title: no more drama for me, thanks
Post by: Nonameanymore on January 11, 2010, 12:21:09 PM

hi all,

i just felt like writing this in public, instead of just journal it

P.

Title: Re: no more drama for me, thanks
Post by: Portia on January 11, 2010, 12:24:45 PM

sounds good Persephone, and I agree. Reality is enough for me :)

Title: Re: no more drama for me, thanks
Post by: Nonameanymore on January 11, 2010, 12:27:37 PM

thanks Portia
i have fallen back to drama patterns and i am not happ! :D
quite the opposite...
but i am making another start today

P

Title: Re: no more drama for me, thanks
Post by: Portia on January 11, 2010, 12:50:32 PM

hope it's a good day for you x

Title: Re: no more drama for me, thanks
Post by: Nonameanymore on January 11, 2010, 02:16:58 PM

thanks. it hasn't been but hopefully tomorrow will!
x

Title: Re: no more drama for me, thanks
Post by: Ami on January 11, 2010, 03:53:28 PM

What fun is life without drama? Am I sick ?                 Ami

Title: Re: no more drama for me, thanks
Post by: Twoapenny on January 11, 2010, 04:54:21 PM

Tomorrow is another day, P!  Hope you feel happier about things tomorrow.  Twoapenny xx

Title: Re: no more drama for me, thanks
Post by: bearwithme on January 11, 2010, 05:21:21 PM

You go P!! Rock it!

Title: Re: no more drama for me, thanks
Post by: HeartofPilgrimage on January 11, 2010, 06:24:57 PM

Ami, IMHO, life without drama is ...

fun
peaceful
pleasant
joyous
happy
interesting
engrossing
fulfilling ...

If you belong to Facebook, try this experiment: Find two or three people that you KNOW are always creating or participating in DRAMA in their face to face lives. Find two or three other people who don't regularly do the drama thing. Go to these people's Facebook pages, expand their profiles out for at least six months and read their posts. I can almost guarantee that, for the people who are always engaged in drama --- their profiles are BORING. The SAME. It is always about them and about their petty little dramas. But the people who are not into regular doses of drama --- their profiles are much more likely to be interesting and to have posts about all sorts of subjects --- quotes from their favorite authors, pictures of them having fun vacations, knock knock jokes, thought-provoking insights on politics or religion or social issues.

That's my opinion ... when I use the word drama I mean all the emotional hand wringing that goes with not having anythng more interesting to think about than one's self!!

Of course, when you think drama you may think Broadway!

Title: Re: no more drama for me, thanks
Post by: JudyK on January 11, 2010, 07:20:07 PM

Hi, all,
 There has been NO DRAMA in my life for exactly 2 weeks.  NM is mad at me and hasn't called me!!!!  YAYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!

Title: Re: no more drama for me, thanks
Post by: Ales2 on January 12, 2010, 12:41:33 AM

For my after christmas present to myself, I went to one of those personalized stores and bought a pretty gemstone bracelet that could be engraved. The heart charm says "Breaking Free Brings Great Rewards".  Its a reminder to myself of many things I am consciously making an effort to leave behind from 2009 and there will be great rewards coming for my efforts.

Yes, in short, its all about no more NM drama for me. Literally, I have one small financial matter to clear up with her then its NC from then on. And, ironically, my brother is NC with her and has been since November because of her meddling in his marriage, which might lead to divorce.... so,ironically, we might both be NC, for different reasons and we can't even agree on her problems!  But NC nonetheless!!

Title: Re: no more drama for me, thanks
Post by: Nonameanymore on January 12, 2010, 12:51:52 AM

Good luck to all of us guys with our new year 'no more drama' resolution!

P xxx

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Post by: Portia on January 12, 2010, 08:24:33 PM

Ales, I love your bracelet idea.

P, 'no more drama' (NMD?) might be one my mantras  8) I like it.

Title: Re: no more drama for me, thanks
Post by: HeartofPilgrimage on January 13, 2010, 12:57:30 PM

I found a "no drama" sweatshirt on cafepress. Here's the URL:

http://www.cafepress.com/+drama+sweatshirts-hoodies

Tell me what you think!

Title: Re: no more drama for me, thanks
Post by: Portia on January 13, 2010, 05:34:08 PM

I like the 'keep the drama for the theater'  8)