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Title: N Sister-in-law at It Again
Post by: SallyingForth on March 28, 2010, 06:29:22 PM
My DH's sister is at her dastardly deeds again. She's acting as if her aunt is dead already, trying to sell off the furniture. This woman is sooooo frustrating. She is a very odd woman and treats her aunt with disdain, considering the house she lives in right now was given to her by this aunt. We are not talking cheap house either. But no matter, this sister-in-law can never seem to have enough of her aunt's money and things.

My DH and I were sickened by the prospect of his sister selling furniture out from under their aunt while she's dying. It literally left me with sleeplessness for several days. I am quite disturbed by the sister's behavior.

This isn't the first time she has acted like this and won't be the last.

DH's aunt is the most generous, giving, and loving person I've ever met. She treats me like family, much better than my family ever treated me.
Title: Re: N Sister-in-law at It Again
Post by: mudpuppy on March 28, 2010, 07:37:06 PM
Ever consider an elder abuse complaint?

mud
Title: Re: N Sister-in-law at It Again
Post by: gratitude28 on March 29, 2010, 06:26:34 AM
That's a good idea mud. I am sure that what she is doing is not legal.
So sorry you have to deal with her, Sally.
Love, Beth
Title: Re: N Sister-in-law at It Again
Post by: Sealynx on March 29, 2010, 09:34:49 AM
Beth has a good idea. Keep it anonymous as well. It has been my experience that they never change and family and friends can not mediate disputes because the N will just stir up animosity between those individuals and others. There is no end to the lies they will tell.