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« Last post by lighter on October 05, 2025, 09:58:09 AM »
You're right, Amber. I wish cousin could stay safe and stop working, but my aunt and uncle are selfish dragons....sitting on their big pile of money....taking and taking.....which is what they've always done. Cousin goes to court, next week, to make TRO permanent. She doesn't know if the police took the gun from the home, or if stbx did.....when he was removed two days ago....by the cops. She should figure that out AND be super safe in court house parking lot.
The DD joined the group chat, btw. She's making jokes about her father trying to enter the courthouse with a gun and 2 beer full coffee cup. My youngest DD laughs when she's nervous too.
The stbx's sister allowed stbx to stay one night with her. He's a mess. She's a neat freak.
Apparently a church friend allowed stbx to stay with him last night, but that's it.
Stbx asked the next door neighbor, who's home he chased DD into, with neighbor chasing stbx OUT. That neighbor said NO. He'll be pulling sentry duty , when cousin and kids get their things. What neighbor won't be doing, is providing a perch for stbx to stalk cousin from. What a crazy thing to ask!!!! So familiar.....intense focus on cousin.... love, hate, love, hate. He flips like a fish.
Cousin, predictively, feels bad for stbx's plight ....she pictures him living in doorways,and her brain goes down old protective pathways......she loses sight, of the self inflicted nature, of said plight. It's really sad, and I don't know why stbx was removed from the home, come to think of it.
Cousin got an emergency TRO, assuming one menaces their child, they lose the kingdom.
The "other woman" is Vietnamese, btw. I say this, bc she left lots of things in the family home, including large size shoes....larger than my father wore. There's a chance White Christian Catholic boy brought a lady-boy home.....and maybe didn't notice?
As much as he disdains women, that actually makes sense.
The journey continues.
Lighter
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