The neighbor's BBQ was so nice... not a moment of regret or discomfort. They're very genuine, kind, funny and make really good burgers, and brats. I had a burger and a brat... baked beans, half a gf bun, beautiful greens and a slice of tomato. THANK YOU. So good. We ate in front of an outdoor fireplace the husband built himself from the ruins of their burned down interior fireplace. I guess they gutted the house in 2006. They had a bunny who needed food. The mom left something on the stove when she went to get bunny food and so the dad turned the stones around and used them to make the fireplace and a beautiful retaining wall. So creative and competent. Everyone chimed in.. two of their daughters were home from University, one with a bf in tow. One dd, 6"1', btw... worked on making a fire of wet wood till she got the job done. After dinner the kids did the dishes without being told. They're bunny people!
The mom, who runs a 100-bed hospital about a half-hour away, seemed a bit frazzled. She said they need to keep half the beds full of COVID patients to keep the system running and achieve herd immunity. They take the temp of everyone who walks in the door, which is frustrating for her to pay an expensive nurse to do that. Also, measuring everyone's oxygen levels is super frustrating bc it takes a while to get an accurate reading AND there's no reliable way to know if an asymptomatic person has the virus without testing. There are still parts of State who don't have the ability to test the number of people who need testing, and demands are being made they do it anyway, which is crazy making. We sat around and played with pulse oximeters while oldest dd explained why they work... she's a bio tech major. Very interesting. We were seeing which PO was most reliable. The one from China did as a good a job as the others. They all seemed to be working fine and I borrowed one to test youngest dd, which I did when I got home. I ordered one for us, and will return this one today. I really like these guys. Their new very large puppy jumped up, mostly on me, a bit. I hate being perceived as the weakest link and tried to train him into better habits, but he was so fluffy and adorable. I just couldn't be stern proactively. My first instinct was to adore him.
They had gf cookies... very yummy.... and the oldest dd made lemon bars. The dad showed me his Ukelele building workshop... he also builds guitars and banjos. They're beautiful. Most have Kona wood faces.... mother of pearl inlay on some. Just beautiful to look at. I wish my youngest had gone with me and played some. She wasn't feeling it and I didn't mind the separation for a few hours. We've had a lot of together time. The other mom was struggling a bit with a new puppy and kids in the house after 4 years of having the house basically to her and her husband, but she remained nice and didn't complain... just mentioned the difference in their lives, along with the COVID situation. It's a lot.
She said her hospital began theoretical discussions about Covid when it seemed unreal, but this prepared them well ahead. They always wear masks when they go out and don't understand people who won't wear them.
Today they'll show me how they cut through the neighborhood on foot to get to my yard from theirs.
I don't think I've ever been to a gathering that didn't suck the life out of me, at least a bit. I'm sure part of it was not having to cook or clean or worry about people getting along. I don't feel anything but energized and well fed. This is new.
Lighter