REALLY helpful, Lighter.
Helpful, perceptive and compassionate.
Thank you.
You repeat over and over (thankfully) -- drop the judgement.
I think that's sinking in.
My time with T today was good and brought much of what you're
saying into focus. Different approach to it but the same message.
Haven't been journaling about it yet (just came up this afternoon)
but think I will. Simple, short but...right there. Pick up the little book
(you'd like the hand-made paper) and a sentence or two. Reminding myself
that's part of my purpose. To check in on little me-her, with gentleness.
I think amid brutal weather and brutal politics and brutal pandemic,
I've forgotten to check in on little me-her.
When I get my nose off the pebbles I see her smiling.
Here's the topic I'm leading tomorrow night (we all suggest topics from our own experiences, so that'll be pretty obvious!):
Our topic is: The Right to Be Wrong.
Most people have places within themselves that come from hurt.
We'd be mighty unusual if we didn't. This topic is a chance to look at
some of those areas of the self we often don't think about, or live
with automatically--sometimes in ways that block our capacity for
joy and compassion.
What if we had the right to be wrong? And be happy anyway?
When we lose track of permission to be joyful, there could be many roots.
Examples: early religious training, a particular parent's way of criticizing,
a key relationship error, school experiences, or other experiences of loss,
shock or failure that might have affected our sense of permission to be
all that we are -- fully human.
Questions to Ponder
1) What's an example of an instance when I recognized my right to be wrong?
Share a story you're comfortable sharing. What difference did that recognition make?
2) What if everyone had the right to be wrong? Barring destruction or violence,
what else might result in society if this right was part of our awareness?
I do love the Covenant Group. And listening to each woman's responses, where they go. It's awesome.
hugs
Hops