Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?

[BonesMS]

Hi Bones
 Thinking of you. I love to exercise, so I am lucky, I guess. Happy Exercising!     Love   Ami

Thanks, Ami!

I'm still gradually working on my stamina given that my joints are not in the best of shape!

Bones

[BonesMS]

Bones,

I'm wondering... do you have to go to a Curves place or can you do your exercise routine at home and record your results?

The online weight management program looks really neat, too. That's cool they give you a 30 day free trial on it!

Hope you're enjoying!

Love,
Carolyn

I have to go to the Curves place which is about a ten minute drive from my door.  Not a bad drive, plus it is within walking distance of my grocery store so I can get bottle water and a salad, plus walk around the shopping center after I work out.

Bones

[Certain Hope]

Sounds  great, Bones... and convenient!

One of the disadvantages of living so rural is not having such neat stuff nearby, but I'll be thinking of you as I run the dogs (or rather, they run me) around the field... lol.  Have fun!


Love,
Carolyn

[BonesMS]

Sounds  great, Bones... and convenient!

One of the disadvantages of living so rural is not having such neat stuff nearby, but I'll be thinking of you as I run the dogs (or rather, they run me) around the field... lol.  Have fun!


Love,
Carolyn

Thanks, Carolyn!

The only downside is that it is closed on Sundays.

Bones

[Certain Hope]

Oh, that's a bummer, Bones!

Do you get that "Fit TV" channel?

I don't know whether it would count toward your time commitment with Curves, but they have some really good programs that get me moving!
It's fun, too! Although sometimes I can't keep up... lol.
At least that would keep you in the swing of things, while you have the free time.

Love,
Carolyn

[BonesMS]

Oh, that's a bummer, Bones!

Do you get that "Fit TV" channel?

I don't know whether it would count toward your time commitment with Curves, but they have some really good programs that get me moving!
It's fun, too! Although sometimes I can't keep up... lol.
At least that would keep you in the swing of things, while you have the free time.

Love,
Carolyn

I don't get cable because the only cable TV company in my area has a bad reputation and I'm not inclined to give my money to idiots.

I found other ways to exercise on Sunday, (i.e. the fitness room and the pool where I live), so that helped.

Bones

[Certain Hope]

O. Well then you wouldn't like our satellite company, either!   

And I forgot you've got access to kewl stuff like a fitness room and pool... that's super!
Shoulda known you'd have that all sorted out.

Hope you'll have a great week, dear Bones.

Love,
Carolyn

[BonesMS]

O. Well then you wouldn't like our satellite company, either!   

And I forgot you've got access to kewl stuff like a fitness room and pool... that's super!
Shoulda known you'd have that all sorted out.

Hope you'll have a great week, dear Bones.

Love,
Carolyn

Thanks, Carolyn.

BTW, all's quiet on the western front, for now, where NDoofus is concerned.  Since I have not responded to any of her junk e-mails, they have slowed down considerably to a trickle.

Bones

[Certain Hope]

Thanks, Carolyn.

BTW, all's quiet on the western front, for now, where NDoofus is concerned.  Since I have not responded to any of her junk e-mails, they have slowed down considerably to a trickle.

Bones

I'm glad for you, Bones!

And it's the same here... seems like it goes in fits and spurts, but not much lately.

It's such a relief to just stay out of the N-orbit!

Happy Tuesday to you 

Love,
Carolyn

[BonesMS]

Thanks, Carolyn.

BTW, all's quiet on the western front, for now, where NDoofus is concerned.  Since I have not responded to any of her junk e-mails, they have slowed down considerably to a trickle.

Bones

I'm glad for you, Bones!

And it's the same here... seems like it goes in fits and spurts, but not much lately.

It's such a relief to just stay out of the N-orbit!

Happy Tuesday to you 

Love,
Carolyn

Thanks, Carolyn!

It seems I get one junk e-mail a month from her now.

Bones

[Certain Hope]

Bones,

I'm down to about 1 every 3 weeks or so, but the last one wasn't spam... it was actually several lines of personal communication. I didn't respond.
Kinda been down that road once too often, already.

Love,
Carolyn

[BonesMS]

Bones,

I'm down to about 1 every 3 weeks or so, but the last one wasn't spam... it was actually several lines of personal communication. I didn't respond.
Kinda been down that road once too often, already.

Love,
Carolyn

NDoofus just sent me one impersonal junk e-mail yesterday that I simply deleted without comment.  I have no idea what is going on between her ears.

Bones

[Certain Hope]

NDoofus just sent me one impersonal junk e-mail yesterday that I simply deleted without comment.  I have no idea what is going on between her ears.

Bones

Bones,

Maybe you are habit-forming     I mean, for her, forwarding junk mail to you is a habit, perhaps?

On the other hand, I had a relative who put me on the mailing list so that her condo association newletter was sent to me (1,000 miles away) monthly.
To me, that was junk mail... it had absolutely nothing to do with her, personally.

And I still have relatives who forward their junk mail to me in the form of magazines, etc... and sometimes it appears that they haven't read this stuff themselves.
I could understand a bit, if there were some particular article of interest hilighted, but it really is nothing but rubbish!

Dunno.

Happy Friday, Bones!

Love,
Carolyn

[BonesMS]

NDoofus just sent me one impersonal junk e-mail yesterday that I simply deleted without comment.  I have no idea what is going on between her ears.

Bones

Bones,

Maybe you are habit-forming     I mean, for her, forwarding junk mail to you is a habit, perhaps?

On the other hand, I had a relative who put me on the mailing list so that her condo association newletter was sent to me (1,000 miles away) monthly.
To me, that was junk mail... it had absolutely nothing to do with her, personally.

And I still have relatives who forward their junk mail to me in the form of magazines, etc... and sometimes it appears that they haven't read this stuff themselves.
I could understand a bit, if there were some particular article of interest hilighted, but it really is nothing but rubbish!

Dunno.

Happy Friday, Bones!

Love,
Carolyn

Well, NDoofus sent me a personalized e-mail asking me if anything was wrong.  (DUH!    )  I told her I am ANGRY and that I need time to think!  She asks if I am angry in general or angry at her.  (Double DUH!!!!)  I SHOUTED at her that I AM ANGRY AT HER AND LEAVE ME ALONE AND LET ME THINK!  Her response?  "Well, we can continue this conversation via e-mail or you can call me at work.  I have a meeting and BLAH, BLAH, BLAH......"   NDoofus has gotta be dumber than a bucket of rocks!!!!!

Bones

[Certain Hope]

Well, NDoofus sent me a personalized e-mail asking me if anything was wrong.  (DUH!    )  I told her I am ANGRY and that I need time to think!  She asks if I am angry in general or angry at her.  (Double DUH!!!!)  I SHOUTED at her that I AM ANGRY AT HER AND LEAVE ME ALONE AND LET ME THINK!  Her response?  "Well, we can continue this conversation via e-mail or you can call me at work.  I have a meeting and BLAH, BLAH, BLAH......"   NDoofus has gotta be dumber than a bucket of rocks!!!!!

Bones

Bones...

Are you really thinking about what you might want to say to her?

Or are you avoiding her?

Just asking because... if you've really made up your mind already, that you don't want to hear from her again, then just saying that to her directly can be so liberating!

On the other hand, if you've not decided, definitely, that you want to close the door on further communication...  then she has no reason to stop contacting you.

I'm sorry if you have already said you told her that and I've forgotten... but I don't recall you ever drawing that final boundary?

Love,
Carolyn