Author Topic: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?  (Read 1306662 times)

BonesMS

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2790 on: October 09, 2011, 08:23:34 PM »
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Ethics CANNOT be ignored!
Bones, you get my vote.

I wish I knew more people like you, and fewer people without morals.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2791 on: October 10, 2011, 05:18:42 AM »
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20111010

LOVED Dear Abby's response to the first letter!  Made me laugh out loud!   :lol:

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« Reply #2792 on: October 10, 2011, 05:33:23 AM »
http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/house-rules-stand.html

Seems like the grandmother has a better grip on reality than the mother of the 25-year-old.  Sheesh!!!!
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2793 on: October 10, 2011, 05:48:45 PM »
Just checking in........feeling down today.
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« Reply #2794 on: October 10, 2011, 07:37:10 PM »
I'm sorry you're blue, ((((((Bones)))))

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2795 on: October 11, 2011, 07:42:57 AM »
I'm sorry you're blue, ((((((Bones)))))

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Thanks, (((((((Hops)))))))

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2796 on: October 12, 2011, 07:07:55 AM »
After nearly FIFTY years of being with one bank, I find that I need to make arrangements to change to a different bank.  MegaNational Bank has gotten TOO BIG and TOO ARROGANT!   :P
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2797 on: October 12, 2011, 07:24:08 AM »
http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/there-are-some-relationships-you-just-can-t-fix.html

Based on the description in the first letter, smells like a Narcissist to me!
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2798 on: October 13, 2011, 07:18:31 AM »
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2799 on: October 13, 2011, 07:57:31 AM »
Random thoughts popping through my brain as I'm reading various posts.  Not sure how they would be perceived.  Just sharing from my own personal experience, for what it's worth.

Years ago, I volunteered to be in a double-blind study while having my wisdom teeth removed.  This study would involve taking various medications, after the surgery, and studying their effects.  (I was still an undergrad psychology student so I understood what double-blind studies entail.)  I was also newly-sober at the time and understood that I needed to be responsible to protect my sobriety.  I shared with these people, who were involved with the study, about my alcohol and drug history, and stated that even though we won't know which drugs would be given to me, I needed to know what classification of drugs would be involved.  I gave them a list of which prescription drugs I had abused in the past during my active addiction, (e.g. benzodiazepines), and emphasized that as a recovering dual addict, (alcohol AND drugs), I could not take any medications that have addictive properties, (e.g. demerol, morphine, phenobarbitol, or other addictive narcotics that are classified as controlled substances).  They went back and checked the lists of medications that they were planning on using in the study and determined that they were ALL addictive.  As a result, we made a mutual decision that I would not participate in the study.  The risk to my sobriety was too great to take that kind of gamble.
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2800 on: October 14, 2011, 11:19:42 AM »
Saw a rainbow this morning.......
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2801 on: October 14, 2011, 11:21:32 AM »
I think you made such a mature, sober (pun intended) choice there about the study...wonderful advocacy for your own well being.

And I'm happy you had a rainbow appear!


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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2802 on: October 14, 2011, 12:05:41 PM »
I think you made such a mature, sober (pun intended) choice there about the study...wonderful advocacy for your own well being.

And I'm happy you had a rainbow appear!


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Hops

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I almost didn't see the rainbow until another lady nearby yelled out:  "Oh-h-h-h-h, LOOK!!!!"  I looked up to where she was pointing just in time to see a brief double-rainbow before one of them faded.  Nice way to start the morning!  I had almost gone straight inside and would have missed it.
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2803 on: October 15, 2011, 05:04:56 AM »
Woke up at 4:00 AM this morning.  Just as well.....I had to get up at 5:00 AM to prepare to go out of town today.  Will report on what happened when I get back.
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2804 on: October 16, 2011, 06:23:16 AM »
In reading the first letter in Dear Abby, (October 16, 2011), what happened is APPALLING!!!!!!


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