Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?

[BonesMS]

Hope you got some good rest finally, ((((Bones))))

love,
Hops

Thanks, ((((((((((((((((Hops))))))))))))))))))

Seasonal Affective Disorder is starting to hit.

I'm also struggling with feeling useless and unwanted.

[BonesMS]

Today's "Annie's Mailbox"

http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/road-trip-anxiety.html

[BonesMS]

This sounds painfully familiar:

http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/in-the-shadow-of-a-sibling.html

[Hopalong]

Principle #1 for you, Bones....to my toes.

http://www.uua.org/beliefs/principles/

xo
Hops

[BonesMS]

Principle #1 for you, Bones....to my toes.

http://www.uua.org/beliefs/principles/

xo
Hops

okay.............................

[BonesMS]

Today's "Dear Prudence":

http://www.slate.com/articles/life/dear_prudence/2012/09/dear_prudence_my_boss_never_zips_his_fly_is_he_doing_it_on_purpose_.html

(Just getting back online after a tornado warning came through my area.  This sounds weird but I could feel something/air pressure changing before the warnings started being issued.  The air pressure changing was giving me a headache almost as bad as a migraine.  After the storm roared through and things settled down, I could feel the air pressure/headache lessening.)

[BonesMS]

Having trouble sleeping again............

Anyway, here is today's "Annie's Mailbox":

http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/traveling-tom.html

[BonesMS]

Interesting..............................

http://www.creators.com/advice/advice-goddess-amy-alkon/alive-and-welded.html

[BonesMS]

Today's "Dear Abby" :

http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20120919

Also feeling aggravated about bureaucrats attempting to force me to volunteer when I had been paid for doing the EXACT SAME WORK in the past!  Forcing anyone to "volunteer" is NOT volunteering at all!   

[BonesMS]

The second letter in "Dear Abby", from June 21, 2012 is being discussed in "Dear Abby" of Thursday, September 20, 2012:

http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20120621

From my standpoint, once a WEEK should be enough under the circumstances, NOT EVERY DAY!

http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20120920

[BonesMS]

Today's "Annie's Mailbox":

http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/meet-your-future-difficult-daughter-in-law.html

The "daughter-in-law" in question is old enough to have TEEN-AGE children from a previous relationship/marriage.  I can't help but wonder what other details have been omitted from what was published that could put this situation in a whole different light such as what KIND OF GIFT did they previously give where she is now reluctant to open an engagement gift now?  I sense there is more than one facet to this situation that has been edited out.

[BonesMS]

I had a WEIRD dream last night and the more I analyze it, (Freud, anyone?), the more I wonder about its meaning.

I dreamt I was at some sort of banquet that was attended by a HUGE number of family members.  I was NOT allowed to participate with them in any way.  Instead, I was ordered to take care of their toilet that overflowed nonstop.  (Yeah, I felt as if I was being crapped on in more ways than one!)  I think the dream summed up how I've been treated by the N's over the years!

[BonesMS]

Today's "Dear Prudence":

http://www.slate.com/articles/life/dear_prudence/2012/09/dear_prudence_my_girlfriend_gets_upset_if_i_ever_mention_my_late_wife_.2.html

[BonesMS]

checking in..................................

[Hopalong]

What a Cinderella dream, Bones...

You deserved better.

New PHamily is my Rx.

hugs
Hops