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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #4112 on: January 09, 2013, 07:54:48 AM »
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #4114 on: January 10, 2013, 09:20:23 AM »
In today's "Annie's Mailbox":

http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/emotional-affairs-taking-their-toll.html

The second letter caught my interest.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #4117 on: January 11, 2013, 06:44:53 AM »
In today's "Dear Margo":

http://www.creators.com/advice/dear-margo/conflicted-about-long-lost-mother.html

I think Margo missed some clues here....................

One of the letter writers described incidents where the privacy of her journal was violated by a former stepmother and Margo made no comment?!?!?!?!?  No acknowledgement, NOTHING!
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #4119 on: January 11, 2013, 06:54:17 AM »
Did anyone see a recent case on Judge Judy where two co-plaintiffs were attempting to sue the mother of one of them for supposed "loans" and car insurance?
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #4120 on: January 12, 2013, 06:27:36 AM »
In today's "Annie's Mailbox":

http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/mom-and-daughter-double-trouble.html

Given the description that the child's mother may be abusing drugs again, I've seen no mention of the possibility that the MOTHER might be TAKING THE CHILD'S ADHD MEDS and ABUSING her daughter's meds, preventing the child from having proper treatment.  I see too many possibilities here.....all of them BAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #4121 on: January 12, 2013, 06:31:39 AM »
The last letter in "Dear Margo":

http://www.creators.com/advice/dear-margo/compelled-to-be-a-doormat.html

Sounds familiar................

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #4122 on: January 12, 2013, 11:54:15 AM »
I can't handle these columnists' SO-brief and shallow advice sometimes.
Cary Tennis really does it for me, and Carolyn Hax...

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #4123 on: January 12, 2013, 12:00:35 PM »
I can't handle these columnists' SO-brief and shallow advice sometimes.
Cary Tennis really does it for me, and Carolyn Hax...

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Sometimes I wonder if the columnists are pulling their so-called "advice" out of a fortune cookie........
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #4124 on: January 13, 2013, 06:43:52 AM »
In today's "Annie's Mailbox":

http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/alcohol-changes-him.html

The advice columnists are OUT OF TOUCH!!!!  Those of us who have dealt with alcoholism with family members could have given BETTER advice!
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