Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?

[Hopalong]

Is your elderly neighbor doing any better Bones?
How about YOU?

I know you're still reeling over your friend...thinking of you.

hugs
Hops

[BonesMS]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lcVsqXZUxoc

This is one of Dick's BEST songs!

[BonesMS]

Is your elderly neighbor doing any better Bones?
How about YOU?

I know you're still reeling over your friend...thinking of you.

hugs
Hops

Thanks, Hops.

Regarding my elderly neighbor, the last I heard is that Adult Protective Services is checking on the situation.  The brother, who has access to all of his money, has taken him out of his home so I don't know anything else.

[BonesMS]

http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/he-sees-dead-people.html

[Hopalong]

He was weeping about his brother taking his money and now his
brother has taken HIM?

God that makes me sad. Hope APS is effective.

love
Hops

[BonesMS]

He was weeping about his brother taking his money and now his
brother has taken HIM?

God that makes me sad. Hope APS is effective.

love
Hops

I'm hoping that APS is all over that brother like white on rice.  The few interactions I had with the brother gave me the feeling that he's a manipulative, lying thief who knows how to B.S. people to get what he wants at the expense of others.  I think that was my Radar System going when I encounter N's now.

[BonesMS]

http://www.slate.com/articles/life/dear_prudence/2014/08/dear_prudence_is_karma_real_a_woman_stole_her_friend_s_husband_and_died.html

[BonesMS]

http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby

[BonesMS]

http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/2014/8/21/cousins-tag-along-kids-push-the-limit

[BonesMS]

http://www.creators.com/advice/at-work-lindsey-novak/soft-skills-are-as-valuable-as-hard-skills.html

[BonesMS]

http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/booze-is-out-of-bounds-for-kids-sports-.html

It looks like several people missed some important points:

(1)  The kids' sports event has taken place in a PUBLIC VENUE and DRINKING IN SUCH A VENUE IS ILLEGAL.

(2)  The dolts bringing and DRINKING THE BOOZE are IMMEDIATELY DRINKING AND DRIVING WITH CHILDREN IN THE CAR!

Duh!

[BonesMS]

http://www.slate.com/articles/life/dear_prudence/2014/08/dear_prudence_a_friend_may_have_killed_her_mother_do_i_have_to_tell_the.html

[Ales2]

Prudie missed a beat on the accidental mother death confession.  If there is money involved in the womans estate, you can bet that the adult kids who walked away will come back wanting their slice of that pie and possibly to make it bigger and will accuse or insinuate that Ruth was somehow responsible for Mothers death through negligence or some other liability. Her need for an attorney may reach farther than criminal actions, and into civil and probate court. Consulting with an attorney may be necessary to avoid a gaslighting type scenario in the future.

[BonesMS]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a7nnFrOVg5s

This piano version is how Dick played this song at the private concert he held for all of us Adult Children who survived abuse.  This is how he looked when I first met him.  I am so glad, now, that I had the opportunity to share with him about how powerful his song is and give him a hug.  I miss my Brother From Another Mother.

[BonesMS]

Prudie missed a beat on the accidental mother death confession.  If there is money involved in the womans estate, you can bet that the adult kids who walked away will come back wanting their slice of that pie and possibly to make it bigger and will accuse or insinuate that Ruth was somehow responsible for Mothers death through negligence or some other liability. Her need for an attorney may reach farther than criminal actions, and into civil and probate court. Consulting with an attorney may be necessary to avoid a gaslighting type scenario in the future.

That's possible.