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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6181 on: September 17, 2014, 02:13:29 AM »
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6183 on: September 18, 2014, 02:12:38 PM »
Trying very hard not to loose my temper with idiots but it's getting harder not to give them a smackdown!
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6184 on: September 18, 2014, 05:23:21 PM »
Struggling with Mutism as my Asperger's is getting in the way.  Last night's Board meeting, I was sorely tempted to flip the bird at a temporarily able-bodied moron who proceeded to lecture me that if I couldn't be as articulate as SHE is, then I shouldn't be on the Board at all ... as if people with disabilities are not allowed to do anything that SHE decrees is not allowed!  I wanted to yell at her that not all disabilities are visible, DUMBA$$!!!!

This same DUMBA$$ proceeded to decree what a homeowner should learn to do despite being told SEVERAL TIMES that the homeowner has Alzheimer's and is NO LONGER ABLE TO DO WHAT SHE IS DEMANDING HE LEARN TO DO!!!!

What planet is she living on?!?!?!?!?

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6185 on: September 18, 2014, 11:07:21 PM »
Oh, man.
Bones, how frustrating this had to be.

I am sorry.

Is there any way you could simply hand her a fact sheet about your disorder
with a note requesting her patience and attitude of respect?

You don't deserve to live unappreciated.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6186 on: September 19, 2014, 03:02:34 AM »
Oh, man.
Bones, how frustrating this had to be.

I am sorry.

Is there any way you could simply hand her a fact sheet about your disorder
with a note requesting her patience and attitude of respect?

You don't deserve to live unappreciated.

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Hops

This particular individual doesn't listen to anything that doesn't fit into her little world so I stopped wasting my energy with her.
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6187 on: September 20, 2014, 06:22:47 AM »
It seems lately that the advice columnists are getting more and more stupid and the BTL commentators are getting nastier.  In one of the "Dear Abby" letters, a person writes that she is a single mother raising a 3-year-old son.  She has been approached at work and in other social situation by men who seem interested ... until they learn she has a son ... and then they RUN!  One BTL batsh*t comments about "well that's the price single mothers pay for having children without the benefit of marriage."  Judgmental crap!  Has it ever occurred to that idiot that maybe, JUST MAYBE, the child's father was the LW's husband who might have DIED while she was pregnant?  That has been known to happen.  It's possible she is divorced and was given sole custody due to a variety of issues that she doesn't want to disclose in the letter because it could identify her and open up an ugly can of worms.  Things happen.  Pisses me off!!!!   :P
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6188 on: September 21, 2014, 11:05:16 PM »
I hear you loud and clear Bones. 

My husband died when our child was 7 months old.  It does happen.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6189 on: September 22, 2014, 03:17:19 AM »
I hear you loud and clear Bones. 

My husband died when our child was 7 months old.  It does happen.

Thanks, GS.
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6190 on: September 22, 2014, 02:53:40 PM »
My upstairs neighbors inadvertently woke me up when one roommate knocked on the door to the master bedroom upstairs at 3:00 AM.  The way these condos are built, noise reverberates in every direction.  Once I'm up, I can't fall asleep again for several hours.  I get up and start quietly puttering so I can keep my mind and hands occupied until I can go back to bed later on.

As the dawn light makes more things outside visible, I spotted a young possum walking by the fence.  I'm halfway expecting one of my neighbors to throw a hissy-fit screaming about a "rat" because they're city-folk and not comfortable with wildlife like possums, foxes, deer, beavers, muskrats, herons, hawks, cormorants, etc.  So far, (knock on wood), I haven't heard any screaming hissy-fits yet.
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6192 on: September 23, 2014, 05:31:56 AM »
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6193 on: September 24, 2014, 02:45:39 AM »
trouble sleeping....
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