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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6855 on: August 11, 2015, 03:40:31 AM »
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« Reply #6856 on: August 11, 2015, 11:58:03 AM »
After having to deal with Shingles for a month, I'm in a FOUL mood!  Then an idiot comments to me:  "Well, take some antibiotics...that should take care of the Chicken Pox Virus."  Antibiotics deal with BACTERIA....NOT viruses!!!!!  I have ZERO patience for STUPIDITY right now!!!!
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« Reply #6857 on: August 11, 2015, 10:38:06 PM »
:) Hi Bones

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« Reply #6859 on: August 13, 2015, 06:41:54 AM »
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« Reply #6861 on: August 14, 2015, 05:49:51 AM »
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« Reply #6862 on: August 15, 2015, 03:16:23 AM »
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« Reply #6863 on: August 16, 2015, 12:23:43 AM »
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6864 on: August 16, 2015, 05:39:41 AM »
How is the ailment going Bones?

Still got the Shingles.
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« Reply #6866 on: August 16, 2015, 06:53:17 AM »
One of the things I find aggravating is that, while dealing with a serious illness, some people seem to think that they are entitled to make decisions FOR you WITHOUT bothering to discuss those decisions WITH you!!!!  Then they wonder WHY you have the NERVE to get annoyed because, after all, they KNOW what is best FOR you!!   :P  Excuse me?!?!?!?!  BACK UP!!!!
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« Reply #6867 on: August 16, 2015, 10:19:35 AM »
Having to be cooped up in self-quarantine so that I don't expose others to the Shingles or Chicken Pox virus while it's active has given me more time to do genealogy research online.  I also got a HUGE surprise that I NEVER, in my WILDEST dreams EVER expected!!!  I wish my Dad was alive so that I could share it with him!!!!  I'm sure he would have been THRILLED!!!

I don't know if I had mentioned this before, but I submitted my DNA to a genealogy project over a year ago and I occasionally receive notifications about DNA matches.  (It did lead to an AWKWARD situation when the genealogy project put me in contact with some relatives that I had been NC for awhile and now they have been placed on NC again.) 

This past week, I received another notification about another DNA match so, out of curiosity, I checked it out.  When I looked at the other family tree, the first thing I noticed was a family name, from the 1700's, that is also in my tree.  I click on the link and a name, from the 1700's, pops up and it's in the EXACT same area as what is in my family tree!!!  Then I click to see this person's full family tree and see that this ancestor's name is connected to my 5th great-grandparents!!!!  This person, in this new DNA match, is a sister to my 4th great-grandmother!  I also started to look through all the descendants.  (After being burned by dealing with N-relatives that I had to place back on NC, I tend to be a bit more cautious so I check more thoroughly.)  One of the descendants has a picture attached and I recognized the name of a celebrity from my parents' generation, which made me do a double-take!!!!  My initial reaction was ... "HUH?!?!?"  When I saw a link where I could send the tree's owner a message, I clicked on that to discuss my 4th great-grandmother and this person's ancestor from the same family.  Turns out that the owner is the celebrity's SON, who is a celebrity in his own right and that it turns out we are 4th cousins!!!

All I could do was sit there with my jaw on the floor ... absolutely speechless!!!!!
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« Reply #6868 on: August 16, 2015, 11:53:38 PM »
Hum, small world it seems. Sounds like you are making good use of your time. I never knew that there was a genetic genealogy bank or whatever. I think I am too shy to contact distant relatives. Its really fascinating though how quickly the world changes. Just a few generations ago I think most of my relatives were farmers.

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« Reply #6869 on: August 17, 2015, 05:18:04 AM »
Hum, small world it seems. Sounds like you are making good use of your time. I never knew that there was a genetic genealogy bank or whatever. I think I am too shy to contact distant relatives. Its really fascinating though how quickly the world changes. Just a few generations ago I think most of my relatives were farmers.

A few generations ago, most of the ancestors were either farmers or hunters/gatherers.
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