Triangulation, Toxic Hope, Pattern Recognition, Countersuggestibility, Etc.

[Stormchild]

Links to blog posts that were first posted here. 
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in Gale Warnings:
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Denial vs. Toxic Hope: 11-15-06
http://galewarnings.blogspot.com/2006_11_15_archive.html

Triangulation: 11-15-06
http://galewarnings.blogspot.com/2006_11_15_archive.html

Countersuggestibility: 11-17-06
http://galewarnings.blogspot.com/2006_11_17_archive.html

Ricochet Transactions: I'm Talking to You, but The Message is for Him: 11-18-06
http://galewarnings.blogspot.com/2006_11_18_archive.html

Double Binds in Group Interactions [under construction]

Alcoholism, Denial, Enabling, and Psychological Healing: [under construction]

Strange Kindness and the Nedlog Rule: 11-18-06
http://galewarnings.blogspot.com/2006_11_18_archive.html

The Myth of Verbal Boundaries: [under construction]

Justice and Mercy: 11-18-06
http://galewarnings.blogspot.com/2006_11_18_archive.html

Pursuer-Distancer Relationships: [under construction]

Luella Miller: Narcissism in a Velvet Gown: 10-20-07
http://galewarnings.blogspot.com/2007_10_20_archive.html

Abuse and Memory: 11-26-06
http://galewarnings.blogspot.com/2006_11_26_archive.html

The Baited Hook: 11-27-06
http://galewarnings.blogspot.com/2006_11_27_archive.html

Support and Accountability: 11-30-06
http://galewarnings.blogspot.com/2006_11_30_archive.html

Blood Ties that Blind: 12-7-06
http://galewarnings.blogspot.com/2006_12_07_archive.html

My Nearest, Dearest... Saboteur 12-7-06
http://galewarnings.blogspot.com/2006_12_07_archive.html

Denial and Group Homeostasis, at Home and at Work 12-23-06
http://galewarnings.blogspot.com/2006_12_23_archive.html

Three Little Words (that mean so much) 1-27-07
http://galewarnings.blogspot.com/2007_01_27_archive.html
 
The Paradox of False Goodwill: Disbelieving the Victim 2-7-07
http://galewarnings.blogspot.com/2007_02_07_archive.html

The Paradox of False Goodwill: Intolerable Tolerance: 2-14-07
http://galewarnings.blogspot.com/2007_02_14_archive.html

I Hurt: This Stinks (and what we do about it) 2-15-07
http://galewarnings.blogspot.com/2007_02_15_archive.html

The Change-Back Reaction 2-16-07
http://galewarnings.blogspot.com/2007_02_16_archive.html

Pattern Recognition, Awareness, and Escape From Abuse 2-17-07
http://galewarnings.blogspot.com/2007_02_17_archive.html

Defensive Pessimism [under construction]

Watch What they Do, Not What They Say 2-19-07
http://galewarnings.blogspot.com/2007_02_19_archive.html

The "Non-Abusive Presupposition" 2-20-07
http://galewarnings.blogspot.com/2007_02_20_archive.html
[This post has been backlinked by a blog on professional mediation...]

The Karpman Drama Triangle 2-22-07
http://galewarnings.blogspot.com/2007_02_22_archive.html

Addicted to Drama 3-10-07
http://galewarnings.blogspot.com/2007_03_10_archive.html

The Nature of Conflict 3-29-07
http://galewarnings.blogspot.com/2007_03_29_archive.html

Diminished Options 4-7-07
http://galewarnings.blogspot.com/2007_04_07_archive.html

Hostile Dependency 3-29-07
http://galewarnings.blogspot.com/2007_03_29_archive.html

Deceptive Self-Disclosures 4-28-07
http://galewarnings.blogspot.com/2007_04_28_archive.html

Displacement 5-16-07
http://galewarnings.blogspot.com/2007_05_16_archive.html

A Simple Truth 5-28-07
http://galewarnings.blogspot.com/2007_05_28_archive.html

Exogenous vs. Endogenous Depression 6-7-07
http://galewarnings.blogspot.com/2007_06_07_archive.html

I-Thou, I-You, I-It 6-9-07
http://galewarnings.blogspot.com/2007_06_09_archive.html

The Sociopath Next Door 6-24-07
http://galewarnings.blogspot.com/2007_06_24_archive.html

The Paradox of False Goodwill: Unfriendly Friends 7-5-07
http://galewarnings.blogspot.com/2007_07_05_archive.html

Splitting 7-11-07
http://galewarnings.blogspot.com/2007_07_11_archive.html

The Abusive Danse Macabre 7-28-07
http://galewarnings.blogspot.com/2007_07_28_archive.html
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in Strange Mercy:

[these links are not broken; multiple posts are on the same page]
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Unilateral Forgiveness and "Cheap Grace" 5-12-07
http://strangemercy.blogspot.com/2007_05_12_archive.html

Magical Thinking: The Gospel of Narcissism 5-19-07
http://strangemercy.blogspot.com/2007_05_19_archive.html

This is Not Death 5-25-07
http://strangemercy.blogspot.com/2007_05_25_archive.html

The Law of Love 5-25-07
http://strangemercy.blogspot.com/2007_05_25_archive.html

True Love 5-25-07
http://strangemercy.blogspot.com/2007_05_25_archive.html

A Random Act of Kindness 6-27-07
http://strangemercy.blogspot.com/2007_06_27_archive.html

The Profound Decency of Temple Grandin 9-21-07
http://strangemercy.blogspot.com/2007_09_21_archive.html

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Additional recommended reading:

http://narcissists-suck.blogspot.com

http://narc-attack.blogspot.com

http://groups.msn.com/webofnarcissism

http://www.theadminzone.com/forums/showthread.php?t=26193&p=189571
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Thanks to all who inspired me to post and share.

 ~~ Stormchild