Ami,
I do apologize, I was in 'modify' mode and somehow managed to clip a key and delete my post. So I have re-written it to post again as follows:I am wondering why a Mother would do this to her daughter, children -- emotional sexual abuse and/or covert (subtle) sexual abuse? Disordered person? Or the taboo 'evil' ?
"It also involves parents or caretakers having to know about every detail of one's private sexual life, asking questions about a child's sexual physiology or questioning for minute details about dates. Covert sexual abuse involves not receiving adequate sexual information".
"It also involves parents using sexualized language for titilation and gratification. In particular, the shocked expression of the young person."
Personally, I am wondering, if a Mother engages in such a manner with her daughter, children -- for personal pleasure, as apparently some people gain pleasure by engaging in such a way.
Nonetheless,
the Shame belongs to the Mother -- the perpetrator, the abuser.
(((( Ami )))) Let the shame go - back to your Mother. Release all shame and toxicity back to the origin - to your Mother. She owns the shame, not you.
Love, Leah
Ami, as I mentioned, I could not comprehend fully due to lack of an awareness or understanding, and so I searched for the above information, however, also, in addition, I have come across the following website:
http://www.kalimunro.com/article_sexual_abuse_by_mothers.html A Painful Topic. This may be of use, or may not, just "compost" as necessary.
