hey j_stice, not seen you around for ages.
Hope your travels are good.
In some ways I feel like the relationships I have had with the therapists and doctors have been practice for real life; I started with a counsellor years ago who wasn't very experienced, she pushed me to reveal a lot of childhood trauma then it was like 'we need to close this up' and I felt like she didn't have the resources either the skills or time ( it was NHS and the pressure was get people functional and off the books )
I forget where you are, Australia? but I have found services better in US and a huge choice.
Someone else posted from Japan and said there were NO mental health facilities where s/he is.
So it depends on what's available.
But if I were choosing someone I'd look for someone with experence and try them out, after a couple of sessions if I'm not happy I'd try someone else.
One marriage counsellor we had I kept going for ages after it became apparent he couldn't help us; he didn't recognise my husband's Nism or know how to deal with it, but was intrigued by it. The sessions I had alone with him he seemed more interested in my h!
The therapist I saw the longest I just outgrew after a couple of years; there was nothing more to learn at that stage from my past. It wasn't a conscious decision, I just saw her less and less and eventually stopped going.
I guess what I'm saying is- expect it to be a process.