www.selfinexile.com This website helps for understanding and recovery for the compulsive pull towards Ns and abusive, exploitative relationships.
Its focus is on the less known issues involved with the disorders of the self, in this case 'schizoid'. This is of relevance, not so much because of anyone being a loner or cold, but because of the dynamics that happen when someone is caught up in abusive relationships, iether current or historical, that is iether in the slave type of role ~ no rights, or recognition as an individual / and the other side of the bargain, the seemingly 'into exile' experience out of the realms and orbit of the favour of the controller, which can seem like 'off the planet', symbolically, (when the delusion is that they
ARE the planet).
