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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Anything again
« Last post by Dirty Hippy on September 06, 2026, 11:48:37 PM »

I'm even getting spam from the library I don't go to anymore. Clearing clearing.

I'd like to meet the person who has the brain capacity to read every spam email even if it's legit like library. Okay no more talking about dumb stuff. Goal: Ruthlessly unsubscribe and delete.
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Farm Journal - 2026
« Last post by Dirty Hippy on September 06, 2026, 11:42:28 PM »

sorry about your cyber stress Amber

you're inspiring me to organize my stuff at least :D
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Predatory grooming
« Last post by Dirty Hippy on September 06, 2026, 11:36:46 PM »

Where are ye person of much light?
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Anything again
« Last post by Dirty Hippy on September 06, 2026, 11:35:18 PM »


I come here and I read my prior msg and it's like I'm giving myself consoling advice.

My memory seems that bad like my brain doesn't retain wisdom even if I read it. I'm going to give myself a break and not beat myself up over not remembering stuff.

So I keep seeing a saying it's one of those annoying platitudes "don't let yesterday take up too much of today."

So I'm sort of always wondering how much self-analysis is helpful and what isn't I just don't know. Frankly it feels like a bit of a luxury to read a self help book and reflect on it. Doing anything self centered feels like a wallowing luxury? I don't know. Always struggle to articulate stuff. Maybe you understand anyways.

- I think I managed to unsubscribe from YouTube notifications to my emails omg.... so much spam to freaking clean out.
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Are you guys absolutely sure you don't want to try discord?

As an alternative chat place to this data heavy board that often doesn't want to open?

I use it on my laptop not as a phone app. Like web version I suppose.

It's free and I think all it needs is an email to sign up.

Amber, Hops, Lighter, & self there's really only four of us posting on here nowadays right?

AI --

can I set up 4 person small group discord where there doesn't have to be like a main moderator people can just go there and chat ?

Yes. Create a standard Discord server, invite your three friends, and leave default member permissions enabled so everyone shares equal access without designated moderators.

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Create a new server
Discord app or web
Click the + (Add a Server) button on the left sidebar, select Create My Own, and choose For me and my friends. Name it and click Create.

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Invite your group
Instant invite
Click the server name in the top left, select Invite People, and copy/send the link directly to your three friends.

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Verify permissions
Optional setup check
By default, all members share the same baseline permissions (speaking, video, screen sharing, and messaging) unless you explicitly assign a restricted role. No special configuration is needed.

Verification: Have any member join a voice channel or send a message; if everyone can speak and type freely without restrictions, the open-group setup is successful.
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Farm Journal - 2026
« Last post by Hopalong on September 06, 2026, 07:01:36 PM »
Amber,
I SO resonate with resentment about having to manage your life with tools somebody dumped on your porch one day with a note saying, use our accounts and portals and passwords and procedures right now and forevermore or we'll murder your favorite cat at midnight.

I really do, I think like you, feel HOSTAGE to this crap. And my life is so simple compared to yours. Personal, medical, business, child. The tech toddlers ain't helping, imo.

Keep on venting, even if just to let out some sanity steam....

hugs
Hops
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Anything again
« Last post by Dirty Hippy on September 05, 2026, 10:25:51 PM »

with narcissists words are not tools for communication; they are just tokens used to buy a specific reaction in the moment
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Farm Journal - 2026
« Last post by sKePTiKal on September 05, 2026, 09:34:50 AM »
No problem. Some days, the board works fine. Others? NOPE.
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Anything again
« Last post by Dirty Hippy on September 04, 2026, 10:01:43 PM »
Now that the page is open don't want to close it in case can't open it again.

Feel like I've had a couple passing glimmers of meaningful thoughts today. Now I am so tired though also feels like I forgot them.

Vaknin says overt narcissists may have been misdiagnosed and they may be psychopaths instead and then the covert narcissists the only true narcissists. Not sure about that claim.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZFHvv4bXFhg
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Voicelessness and Emotional Survival Message Board / Re: Farm Journal - 2026
« Last post by Dirty Hippy on September 04, 2026, 09:59:52 PM »

You might get 2-4 msgs from me. They didn't really look like they were sending. I will stop now.
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