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lighter:
I knew, I KNEW you'd post something incredibly helpful, Amber.
Thanks, an outline will drastically improve my odds of accomplishing my goals.
Lighter
--- Quote from: PhoenixRising on August 11, 2012, 01:52:08 PM ---Instead of looking at all the overwhelming documents... write out in outline form, what you wish you could say to the judge. THEN, line up those documents where they need to go... where they document or support the various outline points. Then, when you hand it all over... you, Lighter... need to release the outcome because you've done the best you can to make your case and while it's true some people only "judge" per their own bias and denial... that's only SOME people. Let the judge decide how much detail to read... and TRUST that the judge is going to his/her job to the best of their ability.
((((((((((and surround Lighter in the giant cone of white light while waiting on the response))))))))
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I can feel it, Amber; ) Again, thanks.
lighter:
Tupp:
It will take days to organize as well as that. Perhaps weeks, and I only have hours left before turning over one of the reports. I can do a better job before trial, but right now flying by the seat of my pants, with the intention of organizing as well as you. Good for you, and I'm taking notes.
Hops, and Izzy:
Thanks for the support. I know you empathize with the lack of organization Hops, and I wish you were here to help me get things in order, Izz. Keep sending light, as I'll be carrying your Amazon spirit into this custody trial with me.
Where is honorary member, Mud?
Lighter
quote author=Twoapenny link=topic=10065.msg163413#msg163413 date=1344750502]
Light and love your way, Lighter.
I don't know how you're currently organising your docs. My mountain of paperwork has a synopsis at the front with the main points bulletpointed. The documents are numbered and then document numbers are listed next to bullet points, so anyone reading can skip straight to that document if they want to. It also has the page numbers from the main document there, so they can just read that section. The main document comes after that, where I explain everything in detail, and again, everything is cross referenced with a document number so it's easy to find. In some instances the same document is referred to more than once and where that happens I've copied it twice and given it a different number so they don't have to flick back through forty pages to find it. I've also included a list of each doc with its number, brief detail of what it contains and its date.
I've made that sound quite confusing - sorry! Basically, something like
* Information relating to allegations made to xyz agency on September 12th 2006. Pages 14 - 32. Doc no's 7 - 15
You probably already have a better way of organising it. I know what you mean though, it makes you feel that you want to sit with the judge and read it to him so he doesn't miss any of it.
Do you have a friend that would read through it with a fresh pair of eyes and tell you if there's anything they miss or don't understand?
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Lots of light and love your way. Your strength and compassion will shine through xxxxx
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teartracks:
((((((((Lighter))))))))
The way you've organized your documents sounds amazingly thorough and understandable. You've done it in a way that should make it easy to respond to the judge who wants all the details or the one who wants a summary.
Wishing you all the best.
tt
Twoapenny:
Lighter, how are things going now? xxx
lighter:
I'm struggling, Tup.
I'm struggling.
Lighter
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