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I will never find f***ing peace

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finding peace:
Why, why, why,

sorry folks I know you are all dealing with your own personal demons.

My home life is shattered.

Why  :cry: can life never be peacful?

Pain

Twoapenny:
Finding Peace, I feel your pain!  It is hard.  It's a long, lonely battle and there have been times I wished I was dead, times I've thought, "Why not just be an alcoholic/do drugs/shop compulsively", anything to get away from it and not feel it, experience it, be part of it.

But ......................... I've learnt something from every painful experience.  Sometimes I've gone through the same experience dozens of times before I've learnt anything, but eventually the penny's dropped.  Now when something that I don't like happens, I find myself being more analytical about it, looking at it as a way to learn more about me, myself, my life.  It still hurts, it still causes confusion, it still makes me feel tired.  But it's a lot more manageable than it used to be.

And I think I've found peace now.  I don't know for sure.  Sometimes you can coast along and everything's okay and something trips you over.  But for now, life feels peaceful - partly because there just aren't many people in my life any more, but that's what suits me - a few good people, who cope with their own lives pretty well, and a real restriction on the ones who cause the dramas, or add to them (or stop me resolving them).

Don't give up.  Focus on the here and now.  Do something that immediately calms you - herbal tea, meditation, a long walk/swim/run, read a book, garden, whatever you find peaceful.  Can you change anything about the situation by changing your response to it?  Is there anyone you can avoid, even just for a few hours?  Can you change the dynamic by saying no, or not right now, or no thanks, I'm not interested?  I do believe peace is there for everyone, it's just very well hidden at times.  Don't give up xxx

sKePTiKal:
Hiya, peace...

I'm all ears when you're ready to spill the beans. Sorry it's turned sour on ya.

Hopalong:
Sending comfort, Peace...

Please don't apologize for being upset on the board.

Hearing voices is what we're here for...upset voices, too.

Want to talk about it?

with love,
Hops

teartracks:




((((((((((((((Finding Peace)))))))))))))

Hugs, shared tears, shared hope,

tt

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