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Update from.....Izzy
lighter:
Izz:
Rest.
Respite.
Joy.
Serenity.
Does that new daughter of yours have children?
What are you plans now? Are you and Karla going to do some traveling?
Lighter
Izzy_*now*:
Mornin' lighter,
Just putting the laundry together, and am going to the bank later.
Karla has no children, as she was injured when a car hit her on her bicycle. She and her husband appear to be very happy without children and she actually said that she feels blessed not having any in this day and age.
She has plans and goals, one of which is to own her own Yoga Studio. Last June, if you remember, I foot the bill for her to go to Victoria to take the teacher's course and now she is busy all the time. ....things that a parent might do to help a child.... as I lost all my others chances. She won't even allow me to hire another woman for cleaning. She will do it all--- why she says she will always be my life companion,--rainy days, snowy days, need a Rx? whatever, but I still have to see how that works out, whether it will be at her convenience, or at mine----
Her husband works up North in Alberta, making the bucks, but then will be laid off for 2 months.
Because she (my therapy ) was not included in the settlement, I worked out a way to have her here, once a week, and not run through money as before. (I wouldn't doubt that my lawyer never fought for me to have her---- because of their history, but I cannot prove it. I did make reference to his never supporting her good work for me over the last 3+ years.)....I'll drop a hint the next time I see him. He had suggested a girl for Karla to train and work with me, and I would pay less, but we did that when she was gone last June, and if someone is not really into it, it shows
So now that the claim is settled, and she (they) is (are) "on her way", I'll be back to my regular frugal living style, and I don't need much. There will be no trips etc. I'm just in bad enough shape, that staying in my own home is more comfortable than traveling.
Maybe even my time on the forum is coming to an end, as well, because the ordeal is over and life will be very dull and repetitive, just as have been the past 4 years---yet there was an ending to that. It came.
xx
Izzy
Twoapenny:
Hi Izzie,
Well I hope you don't vanish from the forum it just wouldn't be the same without you. My life feels very dull and routine a lot of the time but sometimes that's what we need to talk about and push back and forth. I listen to some of my friends going on about their holiday plans and their days out and their evenings away and so on and I can't identify with any of it, it's just a life I can't and don't lead. I think we all need people that understand the fact that we managed to get out of bed today was a big achievement, or that we got around to clearing out a drawer or cupboard or cooked a nice meal - little things that mean so much more when your world gets smaller. A friend asked me today whether anything exciting had happened this week and the only out of the ordinary thing I could think of was that the cat hurt her tail :lol: For me it was quite a big deal; paying for the vet is a problem so I only go if absolutely necessary so there was a lot of reading up on the internet and chasing the cat round trying to look at something she didn't want me to touch so I could decide whether I needed to go or not - mind numbingly dull to some but it's my life and we do the best we can with what we've got, right? I'm glad this chapter is drawing to a close for you and hope for good things for you and Karla from now on xx
lighter:
--- Quote from: Skits on April 25, 2013, 12:37:46 PM ---Mornin' lighter,
Because she (my therapy ) was not included in the settlement, I worked out a way to have her here, once a week, and not run through money as before. (I wouldn't doubt that my lawyer never fought for me to have her---- because of their history, but I cannot prove it. I did make reference to his never supporting her good work for me over the last 3+ years.)....I'll drop a hint the next time I see him. He had suggested a girl for Karla to train and work with me, and I would pay less, but we did that when she was gone last June, and if someone is not really into it, it shows
So now that the claim is settled, and she (they) is (are) "on her way", I'll be back to my regular frugal living style, and I don't need much. There will be no trips etc. I'm just in bad enough shape, that staying in my own home is more comfortable than traveling.
Maybe even my time on the forum is coming to an end, as well, because the ordeal is over and life will be very dull and repetitive, just as have been the past 4 years---yet there was an ending to that. It came.
xx
Izzy
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I'm thinking that the 35K you paid off on Karla's house should be worth some therapy on an ongoing basis, perhaps indefinitely?
Hopefully you won't need the board, and can turn to uplifting, happy endeavors. You deserve it.
Lighter
Hopalong:
Izzz....
NO need to make any decisions about the Board just now, eh?
I hope you'll be hopping in any old time to talk about any old thing at all.
love to you,
Hops
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