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BonesMS:
((((((((((((((((((((Green Bean)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

Twoapenny:
Bean, I am so sorry to read this, and so sorry for your loss.  A death is a terrible thing to cope with at any time, but within difficult family situations it becomes so much harder.

I know what you mean about not having friends; I felt like that for a very long time (and still feel that I don't have many).  But I've found the comfort and support from my cyber friends here on this forum so uplifiting; it just made me feel like I wasn't completely alone during those very tough times when it seemed that no-one understood or cared about me.  People here did.

So keep posting, even if it's just a stream of consciousness thing so that you can get things off your chest and onto the screen so it's not all bubbling away inside you.

Thinking of you, and sending love your way.

Tup xxx

Hopalong:
I am so sorry Beanboat...isolation makes loss much harder.
I am very sorry.

I'm really glad you came to tell us here.
I hope there's some bereavement support you can find,
hospice groups, or such.

love,
Hops

Meh:
I just feel tired. My mother and my aunt seem like they already are making decisions about the memorial service and not including me.

There was a friend that my brother knew since high-school. This morning I was able to contact his father on Facebook and he is going to tell my brother's friend. I feel better that I was able to get in touch with them. His father said that my brother was like a son to him.

I called my mother this morning and asked her to slow down with all her frantic plans and try to figure out who should be included and how.

She seems to be immediately concerned with cleaning out his house and "giving it back to the bank". I don't understand why this is all happening so fast. Maybe she co-signed on all of the mortgage stuff etc. But I would think there would have to be some kind of grace period for that stuff.

sKePTiKal:
Bean, I'm not here much anymore but I do still check-in.

I'm so sorry for your loss. I don't have any advice, just a big hug.
And I hope if it helps you to just document things here, you do so.

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