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Feeling like the last resort.............................
Twoapenny:
I have been struggling with this for ages and don't quite know how to stop feeling annoyed (or changing it so it doesn't happen any more!).
My phone rarely rings during the evening or at the weekend. I have got used to this over the years. It does bother me that I don't feel I have many friends who are willing to see/speak to me during the 'leisure time' part of the week, but I'm okay with it and it's just part of how things are.
However.........................I do notice that, after a weekend of silence, my phone goes a bit crazy on a Monday, in particular - with people who now want to hook up during the week because their husbands are now back at work and the kids are at school. I feel like I'm just being used to fill up some spare time.
It does bother me. I used to think I had a lot of friends. But over time I've seen that more and more of them are happy to meet for a coffee during the week, but evenings and weekends very few people are interested (in fact I have one friend who I can see at a weekend and that's pretty much it).
I've arranged things evenings and weekends before - for quite a few years really - but felt it was always me having to make the arrangements so left if for a while and, of course, haven't seen anyone since.
I still find the relationship thing difficult. I just feel that when I hear from people during the week, rather than during evenings and weekends, they're calling because they're bored and no-one else is around. I keep saying to myself 'go where you're celebrated, not where you're tolerated'. I would love to feel celebrated! But I'm struggling to find people to celebrate with! Instead I feel like I'm Mrs 'oh, she'll do'.
Sorry! Just need a moan! :)
BonesMS:
I hear ya and I can identify!!!!!
Twoapenny:
--- Quote from: BonesMS on May 12, 2014, 05:39:28 AM ---I hear ya and I can identify!!!!!
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Aw, I'm sorry that you feel that way too, Bonesie! I should have added I don't feel like that on here, quite the opposite! My cyber life is great, it's my real one that I struggle with!
Bones, you are definitely not my last resort :) (((((((((((((((((((((((Bones))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) xx
Meh:
LOL yah I am most often she will do person but oh well
I get it I really do. I have no answers though I have just kind of accepted this about me.
BonesMS:
--- Quote from: Twoapenny on May 12, 2014, 05:43:49 AM ---
--- Quote from: BonesMS on May 12, 2014, 05:39:28 AM ---I hear ya and I can identify!!!!!
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Aw, I'm sorry that you feel that way too, Bonesie! I should have added I don't feel like that on here, quite the opposite! My cyber life is great, it's my real one that I struggle with!
Bones, you are definitely not my last resort :) (((((((((((((((((((((((Bones))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) xx
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