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ann3:

--- Quote ---my parents had to destroy me for their  narcissistic feed.  That is something that I have not read about.  I have mostly read that n parents fed off of their children's success but with mine it was my failure and suffering...My father had trained the joy and exuberance out if me
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There's a movie that depicts this.  It's called "The Heiress"(1949).  The father tries to destroy the daughter for his narcissistic feed.  http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0041452/?ref_=nv_sr_1

BonesMS:

--- Quote from: ann3 on July 24, 2014, 03:25:43 AM ---
--- Quote ---my parents had to destroy me for their  narcissistic feed.  That is something that I have not read about.  I have mostly read that n parents fed off of their children's success but with mine it was my failure and suffering...My father had trained the joy and exuberance out if me
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There's a movie that depicts this.  It's called "The Heiress"(1949).  The father tries to destroy the daughter for his narcissistic feed.  http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0041452/?ref_=nv_sr_1

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NWomb-Donor also got a sadistic thrill trying to destroy others around her.

Gaining Strength:
Thank you very much Dr. Grossman.

Gaining Strength:
Thanks for your suggestion Hops. It's not really a problem looking for a solution. I'm sharing that experience because it is just one example of an excruciatingly painful rejection.

Gaining Strength:
Ann and bones thank you for sharing that. I think that drive to destroy an offspring will always baffle me. It certainly is not something that others in my life understand or even believe.

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