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lighter:
This boy waits outside DD's classes for her. Yesterday she wanted to slip away and practice singing Santa Baby for her chorus class beforehand. The boy tagged along, and sang the song to DD' s delight.
He delights her.
:: nodding::.
She's still shy around him, so she didn't practice her song, which didn't surprise me. What did surprise me is DD agreed to sing a duet with him next open mike night at the school. He plays guitar and she plays ukulele....they both have nice voices. They're adorable.
Lighter
Twoapenny:
--- Quote from: lighter on December 20, 2017, 07:09:34 PM ---This boy waits outside DD's classes for her. Yesterday she wanted to slip away and practice singing Santa Baby for her chorus class beforehand. The boy tagged along, and sang the song to DD' s delight.
He delights her.
:: nodding::.
She's still shy around him, so she didn't practice her song, which didn't surprise me. What did surprise me is DD agreed to sing a duet with him next open mike night at the school. He plays guitar and she plays ukulele....they both have nice voices. They're adorable.
Lighter
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Aw, Lighter, I love the sound of him! What a sweetheart :) Those early romances are so sweet and open. I would love to experience that with someone again :)
lighter:
These days, when I dream of romance, which is rare......
Maybe twice in 10 years and a few years ago, it's that kind of sweet romance. I'm teenaged, the young stranger is teenaged. It's a sweet peck on the cheek, shy affection.
I'm not attracted to what , in my family is termed, " skinny little boys". I think it's longing for simple, unencumbered weightless being without games, or guile. Without danger or risk of any kind. Just before, kwim? When anything was possible,and I didn't know about PD's, or being trapped in relationship, miserably, left feeling afflicted,and harmed. Left cemented in protective mama bear mode where inviting more difficulty, even smallish difficulty was unthinkable.
I have felt attraction to ex military, competent, tool weilding men close to my age, though very rarely. That means I could invite someone appropriate in, I suppose, though the idea of marriage makes me want to raise my fists, and put up my guard. My entire body is left guard forward says my chiropractor friend. I drive that way. Walk that way. It's set in my skeleton. I don't know how that lives in my brain, but it makes me......
Want to leave it far far behind.
:: nodding::.
lighter:
It's wet and warm ish this morning. I'm goin into the yard to plant moss.
:: nodding::
Because I want to.
Lighter
Hopalong:
You and moss have a mystical relationship, Lighter.
Makes me happy that you're grounding yourself in a favorite
earthy beauty today!
As to a future man materializing one day, I hope he is pure
of heart and has unmistakable affection for his mother.
You deserve a man who doesn't hold artificial women on a
fake pedestal, but who has an affectionate and open-hearted attitude
toward mother, sisters, etc.
I hear it's a good hint anyway. Spotting someone who genuinely likes
and champions women. Who supports and respects their own strength.
xo
Hops
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