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Heist on Something....
lighter:
((((Hops)))). Sorry it ended with sadness , but glad you tried. There are deep lessons in these low spots. Perhaps you and Bill will take and run somewhere wonderful with what you've learned. I really hope so.
As for getting right back on the horse....you are an Amazon! Ride, Hops, ride. This is your life. Ask for what you want....
be open to receiving.
You might meet the right one at the grocery store, vet office, or online. The right companion should feel....
right.
::Nod::.
Sorry I've been away.
Lighter
Hopalong:
I just got the sweetest and most gracious note from B (not Bill! :)).
He said he was getting through the surprise and disappointment and "acceptance of loneliness" which I thought was a very wise thing to say. And he thought my decision was probably right for the long run but still wished we could have worked through our differences. He was glad we opened up so much to each other and learned so much from each other, and may call occasionally to see how I'm doing.
That touched me very much. Made it both easier and harder at the same time.
xxoo
Hops
lighter:
Wowsers..... amazing. A man who can accept rejection, of a sort, with Grace, dignity and poise.
That touched my heart to read too, Hops.
Lighter
Hopalong:
Was going to add new dating stories here but love how Lighter summed it up about B.
So I'll yammer on about dating, or some semblances, on another.
Hops
Hopalong:
B called yesterday and it felt so nice to talk to him.
He's doing okay. Playing golf with a neighbor lady so
maybe something nice will happen for him right where
he lives. I hope so.
I could tell he's still missing me acutely. I have missed
him too but as every week passes, less. There's part of
me that still regrets I was just unable to "assimilate" who
is naturally is, though I know I made the right call.
I made him laugh out loud (harder than I've ever heard)
when I said I was doing pretty well but am going to have
to put my pooch in therapy. They were SO simpatico.
Felt good to hear him laugh and bittersweet to hear him.
But still....the river's flowing. Forward and away.
Hops
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