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Coronavirus
lighter:
Wow, P:
What an amazing place to think and heal for a bit. Someplace away from the raging. You'll think more clearly....without all the static and panic if you're away from W for a bit, IME.
You might even recognize your old self and welcome her back, glad to see her again.
I will say this..... before you file divorce IF you file.... you might want to be staying at the cabin BEFORE filing so it doesn't appear you've abandoned the home and W..... it's just the way things were when you filed.
It's OK to take time on your own, particularly with W upset over Covid. He might be all for your staying at the Cabin for a 2 week period, should that seem prudent to you.
A gal could set appointments with attorneys, to get information. She could find more clarity around her situation, with her T, hopefully.
I'm glad you can ask your family for support and love. You might need a safe place to stay, where people can intercept W for a while and document the situation...... give you W free space to grow stronger and more sure of what you want.
You might need touchstones to form a plan with and keep you on track with that plan.
You might need a shoulder to cry on and shared cup of coffee, but it's reassuring you can ask for what you need... when you know what those things are.
Breathe. Slow and steady. Always come back to yourself, in the moment...... the joy in a cup of tea or coffee. The amazing river and rapids,. the eagle.... everything around you is reality. W problems aren't reality when you're away from him, so really sink into feeling safe and calm and in fellowship with your loved ones.
Lighter
lighter:
How're you doing, P?
Hopalong:
Lighter,
I'm sure you'd have said but since I'm being neurotic, did you re-test for Covid?
Hope all went well,
Hops
lighter:
Hops:
DD19 was tested on days 5 and 7 after initial exposure.
She didn't exhibit any symptoms and both tests were Negative.
Lighter
Hopalong:
Got it.
I was asking if you got re-tested yourself, is all.
hugs
Hops
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