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sKePTiKal

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Re: The Lake House
« Reply #210 on: December 15, 2024, 09:34:01 AM »
My version is even less frequent and more sporadic, Lighter.
Not serious enough to address the symptom directly - so I've been gently working on possible underlying (potential) causes: bp, kidney support, etc.

There is a noticeable emotional side to it though - though the emotion itself varies. Sometimes just "not being in my body" (too much in my head or whatever.
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« Reply #211 on: December 17, 2024, 07:24:04 PM »
Thanks for sharing your experience, Amber.  I know there's an emotional component for me.  Likely many underlying issues.  Sometimes I wonder if mindful self care is the cure, rather than the vitamin Bs, milk thistle, Heart Saver Plus and Hawthorne, kwim, etc, kwim?

My BP seems to have settled down, btw☃️

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« Reply #212 on: December 18, 2024, 09:08:34 AM »
Well... the milk thistle is only liver support (detoxing). I doubt that's involved with the vertigo. The B vits are useful after age 50, in general. Perhaps some D3? Not a large dosage... in fact, I've come to the conclusion that less is more these days. Enough to positively impact a symptom, not enough to convince the body to be dependent on it. (Second thought: there are some heavy metals churned up from the Helene flooding... the milk thistle could help move anything you've taken in, out of your system. Green tea and Dandelion Root tea will help too.)

Kidneys can have some indirect impact on proprieception... I use a tincture (occasionally for a few days) called "David Winston's Kidney support compound" from H&A... Herbalist Alchemist. The dosages are just 10 drops in an 8 ounce glass of water, once a day. Seems to effective at that rate without going overboard.

I so far haven't found a pill, tincture or tea that keeps the rest of my "being" on an even keel however... LOL.
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« Reply #213 on: December 18, 2024, 02:03:33 PM »
I'm taking D3 K2 Omega 3 MCT oil, as well.  Will look into kidney support/cleans, thanks.

I had a dizzy spell while watching a 3 or so to leave the blanket with his year old? Sibling seated in the yard ....the child walked towards the road and I slowed and watched till the world started to spin.

I stopped about 3 doors down and pondered consequences of making sure the unsupervised children stayed safe....
me.... approaching young children....with a cute pug.....
expressing, ever so gently, concern, which might be taken as an attack/criticism from a may be kidnapper enticing children with the cutest pug maybe alive.

And, so I sat there till the vertigo and possible consequences made me change pedals and go on my way.

Definitely an emotional component, yup yup yup.



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« Reply #214 on: December 19, 2024, 07:53:41 AM »
Damn.
I'm really sorry the vertigo is so persistent, Lighter.

Have inner ear problems been ruled out by an ENT?

Next stop, maybe a neurological check?

Steady on...

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« Reply #215 on: December 22, 2024, 12:17:59 PM »
I've not made time for the dizzy clinic, Hops.  I'll do that, at some point, and not feel bad for waiting. 

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« Reply #216 on: December 22, 2024, 04:05:17 PM »
No feeling bad! I have a whole list (teeth, eyes, ears, skin) of checks I need to get done. Tedious. Especially to find a new dentist. My long-term clinic (university based) had some retirements and short staffing to cope with so I was just assigned a new dentist, and after two meetings I don't want him. Nothing nefarious, he just has zero chairside manners and I confess I need to be greeted like a person, not a mouth. He's in such a rush that I can barely grasp the procedure as he dashes off to the Next Thing. He actually dashes behind the chair the second he comes in without eye contact or a convincing hello. I'm sure he has reasons, just doesn't work w/me.

I asked for a transfer to a more seasonsed dentist in the same practice and the manager (via receptionist) said I'm not allowed. I have to see him or nobody. I didn't like that, so emailed the chairman my polite confusion. I thought 2nd opinions (about a long and expensive rebuild of a bridge, with another tooth sacrifice) were a respected part of medicine? Pfftt. I never really blame staff or doctors though, just the situation.

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« Reply #217 on: December 22, 2024, 11:39:45 PM »
Lordy, Hops.....trust in a dentist is important!
I go to a practice where the hygienist treats me like a child...... exactly what I look for. Gentle, kind and funny.  I guess I take whichever dentist is available....I think I've seen 2 so far.  It seems unreasonable to force you into seeing one, of many, dental practitioners, IME.

Good luck finding a better fit.  You shouldn't feel forced. Hope the bridge works out soon.

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Re: The Lake House
« Reply #218 on: January 11, 2025, 01:40:23 PM »
I'm having fun discussing possible wedding event with bride for this summer at the lake.

I love making moss and fern table and chandelier arrangements.  I love planning the food, tables, chairs and logistics.....making things special....making them work. This would be an alcohol free event, so more appealing to us.

The lake property is paused on the Airbnb site.  Something had to give and we're heading into tree planting time....heavy equipment and lots of noise and mess.

Will go there soon and make big fires in the living room.  Plot out tables for 70 and price out rentals vs purchasing.

I hope the tiny thin ferns grow back at the RR ties. 

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« Reply #219 on: January 12, 2025, 08:56:14 AM »
OOO... that does sound like fun Lighter! Spring wedding? June?

Maybe "events" would be the best use of the lake house? Does AirBnb let you choose a category like this?
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« Reply #220 on: January 13, 2025, 02:26:33 PM »
Tonight the summer bride is supposed to call and chat about having wedding at lake.  I thought I'd be tucked into jammies, researching rental companies, fees and deliveries, but I'm out and about with vet appt, lunch with DD24 and reupping her fitness membership. The snow and ice are a problem on small streets.  The first main intersection for us has a huge gas leak with firetrucks and a shut down road flanked by gas stations, so that's been the scariest thing about about sliding out of the neighborhood today.

It's blue skies and sunshine.....enjoying the day☃️


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« Reply #221 on: February 05, 2025, 03:24:55 PM »
The summer bride is waiting for pricing for an August wedding.  I have nothing concrete to give her, esp as the maid asking for work just flaked.

Tree guy said 61 trees planted yesterday.  It's a lot of trees, will say that.  Had to stop him from planting on non corps property ...he planted at least 4.

Going to water them now. Hope new hoses were left, not taken

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« Reply #222 on: February 05, 2025, 05:01:53 PM »
We only caught 2 mice in the garage.  It appears one mice pooped in parts of lower up kitchen cabinets....and he did it all by his lonesome.  It's been assumed the dead mouse smell, located in the bedroom under said cabinets, is the unlucky fella.  I think he scampered in while the handyman was checking on house during cold snaps, at my request.

This is best case scenario, btw.

I'm going to start cleaning windows while sister waters trees after this post.

Later, we'll break down bedroom off downstairs kitchen and put in out building.

That space, instead, will officially become flex space with armoires scooted to walls for tables and chairs/dance floor or scooted back into room, as walls, for blow up bed/s.

The bed we're breaking down is a beautiful carved wood poster bed with matching single armoire and huge dresser with mirror.  It was in youngest DD's bedroom in the big house.  I still have the Gurls' Martha Stewart bedding, tattered a bit, but lovely and used during our stays...and....I feel almost nothing when I think of it.  Maybe obligation.....to make their things available....to guard and keep safe.  I'd say that's been a feature, conscious and unconscious. DD said she feels "ambivalent" about the set.....never thought of it "as hers." She's all for putting it in storage, which means she doesn't not care.  I know DD24 cares about her piano and bedroom set. 

The idea of opening up the down great room/kitchen area feels like cool fresh air blowing through my bones.  That is a surprise to me. Heck, will have options for the pool table placement..... everything, really, can be arranged differently, except kitchen island.  I wish we had installed vinyl flooring when down bathrooms were done.  Just matched it all up.  Oh well.



But all those peanut butter traps set in the house, and not one mouse caught. Later, we sanitize and put the mouse panic away.

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« Reply #223 on: March 03, 2025, 04:27:11 PM »
Might have sister's Canadian friend to the lake ....... she's wonderful at planning and executing wildflower meadows.....which baffles me.  Not sure why, but it wobbles my brain.

I have a tree stump/wooden board bench idea brewing for outdoor lakeside seating.  Will speak to contractor about it this weekend... provided girls are in a good place. 

It's exam time and they're still dealing with tonsil trouble, for oldest, and a cold for youngest. That steroid shot, for oldest, made a huge difference, will say that.

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