So interesting, Mia. I found out that my ex and his wife has been bringing my kids to happy hour with them (it's a restaurant also) and then driving them home after a few drinks.
I called him on it, asked him to stop (my kids have a rule never to get in a car with someone who has had any alcohol) because of the obvious danger and confusion the kids have with the "rule" (doesn't apply to dad?).
HE has not responded to that but has deluged me and the kids with a million other negative emails, expectations, and rage slinging, essentially.
Hmmmmm.
Textbook N reaction I suppose.
He does get in accidents, not sure how many, but it is sure to be the other persons' fault (in his mind) although it usually isn't in reality!