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acapella and the other n-partners
hope2003:
Sandahl kicked me off the board without so much as an explanation. I am completely disgusted. I couldn't respond.
There are so many people who needed support and healing, and Sandahl excercised sick control over an important discussion. the board should be driven by its members not by a dictator.
Thanks for suggesting this place.
Jaded911:
Hi hope,
This is gshelbygirl. I really do not know what to say hun. It appeared to me that someone didnt like to have to answer to their N ways. I wish I could post my email on here for you hope. I have alot to say, but refuse to say it in a forum. All I can say is that those actions were so hypicritical, I am speachless and I hope to shout that others volunteer to leave. We never got that chance, but you know what. I suppressed my voice to many times, I will be damned if I will continue to do so because somebody continues to have power issues. Good lord!!
hope2003:
I agree. she made the ultimate N moves. I have e-mailed her directly and let her know the same.
I_am_mine:
I had just joined shortly before this happened, and missed the whole beginning. From what I read, tho - it seemed like the practice on the board doesn't really agree with the information on the intro page about diversity of opinions, etc.
To those of you who know the whole story, I may be way off base. Because I'm not as far in my "evolution" in healing from N-ism, this whole thing has made me very uncomfortable about posting there.
I also emailed her, just to express my opinion on how the whole blow-up affected me (esp as a newbie). Don't know if I'll ever go back - honestly, I find this board much more comfortable and supportive, but that may be because I didn't have enough experience at the other one.
Just wanted to throw in my (uneducated) opinion.
bobbie
hope2003:
Her brief response to both me and Mindy was "have a nice life." While it was an insult to call her an N, she acted like one. She was controlling, dismissive, hypocritical and just plain mean. She wants us to grovel to come back. Sandahl could have gotten on the board and said that she was offended by something that was said.
I notice that she has removed her nasty thread where she tells us it stops now.
she kicked us off with no notice, and she took away the support group for some people who really needed help.
I wish that she would make the private e-mails public. I think that you would all think that Gshelby and I got screwed. I don't know who the third is, but I am assuming accapella.
Anyone who is reading this should feel free to stop enabling Sandahl, and let the board know what happened, since she took away our voice.
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