GFN, don't worry about the giggles. I know exactly where you are coming from.
Thanks Astrofemme! Sometimes when I post stuff like that, I have an immediate anxiety attack, (which doesn't usually last very long), where I think:
"Oh I hope the person won't think I'm taking their situation lightly." or "If I hurt their feelings I'll kick myself" and stuff like that.
It's just that laughing is such a relief sometimes. I mean, we can't change people and sometimes not situations/circumstances (especially, if they are in the past), so all that is left is to mourn our losses, work toward moving on, and laugh at whatever we can find that seems humourous. I'm glad you understand, Astrofemme and also that you can laugh/giggle too and that it's helping. That is so nice to hear and think about.
I like the idea of you smiling a little so much better than thinking of you alone in misery.
Laughing inbetween crying seems like a way of holding onto the joy of life, in a way, to me, and so I think it is a very useful thing to do, especially when so much tension/stress is present.
It's a good sign when we can do that, don't you think?
Yes I do. I think it is a sign that all is not lost, that life will go on, that there is still joy around.....and we are able to find it. I think it shows that even when times are tough, we can relax a bit and enjoy a moment of fun. It shows that we don't have to always take everything too seriously and being life is so short.....we can stop and giggle and it will slow it down some.....help us be in the now......enjoy the now.....make a little fun....to go with the other stuff. Nothing wrong with that, imo. It's a relief, which is needed, to help us out of the darkness.
When everything is steadily serious, it's time for a respite, if you ask me. I have been known to crack jokes at the most intense times. Lucky somebody hasn't reacted in any nasty fashion, so far, and slapped me silly.
I keep risking that.
And it's people like you who always proove it was worth the risk.
Thankyou!
GFN
