it did make me feel strange, and yup, you're probably right about the happiness thing, something he said struck me as odd: 'I'm buying a house' not 'we're'
I'll have to practice cutting people off though, I'm too bloody nice for my own good sometimes...and so many people have NO TACT!!!
I guess it's a dilemma too where I'm at right now- half of me wants to get out there and find someone new, half of me wants to stay hidden away from relationships and pain-free.
I have to keep reminding myself the rest of my life is pretty good and moving on.
It's just romantic relationships I have given up on. Temporarily.
Yuk Hopalong- glad you told your ex to keep his sick-making er love-making to himself!
Thanks guys, you always say the right things!