Has anyone else had the experience of the N man in your life actually withholding sex from you, (we had sex twice in two years), only to find out he is having numerous sexual liasons with multiple, promiscuous and undesireable women. One that I knew since we were kids acquired Herpes 20 years ago in High School, but he was still with her, unprotected. Then, after I kicked him out, I found not only the files of papers concerning his lies,etc., but also found bottles of Virucept, (to help naturally combat Herpes outbreaks, Enzyte, {the natural male enhancer}, and Ogoplex which is a natural form of Viagra. I mean, here I am faithful to him always, clean of disease, and he chooses to bed skanky women he barely knows. Then comes back home like all is well, except that he "doesn't have a sex drive" anymore. I didn't question him a whole lot about it, as I had a hysterectomy a few years ago, and sex is not a top priority for me, but I did like to experience that closeness with my spouse. The lies and betrayal. Him turning to those types of women and denying me. Makes me feel like such a sludge.
Tina