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Staying together just for the Kids?

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Tayana  wrote "My mother wouldn't get physically violent, but she would throw things. Once she broke all of our dishes after a fight with my father. I remember hiding in the closet and praying for it to stop.Your wrote "

Throwing things and breaking dishes is violent and unaceptable behavior.
 
When I read this post, I thought you might be one of my daughters.  I am going through divorce now.  As a man, getting custody of my children is difficult is difficult enough but on top of that, the courts do not recognize Narcissism as a reason to deny custody to an N.  It has taken a long while to finally decide that divorce was better for my children than keeping a dysfuntional family together.  

Your perspective helps me with my resolve to go forward.

Anonymous:
"stating that the "children will be fine and are adaptable" is really not something that we can be sure of. "


that's right, and true for any family. Just do your best as a parent, and watch out for and listen to the child.

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