It just occurred to me a moment ago, that, despite all the disagreements that we occasionally have on this board, new members who have been lurking and reading, eventually decide to become part of its fabric. Go figure.
~RM
ReallyMe,
Although board members here may often share similar pain, we are all different and may choose to handle it differently. This includes posting styles. I find your choice of words "lurking and reading" offensive. Probably because I am one who has been lurking here for a long time, yet, when my I am more passionate about a comment, story, or person here, that's when I might choose to post. Also, and more importantly, I find so much information on this board interesting, thought-provoking and useful, I choose to learn and reflect on all of it. It is only when I feel confident and sure of my feelings (my voiceless tendencies) that I might post...if, and only if, I think it might be worthwhile for myself and/or others. Now, having said that, I am still sensitive to "being different" with my responses here. That is not to say I feel special, but rather, I need to proceed with caution, if you will. THIS is my reason for lurking and learning, reading and weeding, and posting and coasting.
You seem a bit annoyed in your comment. Were you? I felt a "how dare you" lurking between your words.
We each have our own buttons. When pushed, I know this is an opportunity for me to learn something about myself. It's often difficult to see what that might be, but as the lessons repeat themselves, I get closer to knowing what I need to look at.
Mindful thought: I think you're someone who speaks your mind. Some of us mind what we speak. In time, maybe this too will evolve. BJ
