Author Topic: PHONE CALLS!!!  (Read 3196 times)

Anonymous

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PHONE CALLS!!!
« on: February 17, 2004, 09:20:04 PM »
does your N do this? Does your N do that? Does your N pull this....from his narcissist hat???!!!! ( a la Disney Aladdin song )

Phone calls- do you receive a call, reluctantly take it, get into it only to be abruptly or rudely dismissed?

It is equal to 'I am so important I must get immediate attention then mid-way a supposedly life-or-death conversation toss the person aside to make me feel good'.


Now he says I never take him seriously. Really?

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PHONE CALLS!!!
« Reply #1 on: February 18, 2004, 06:26:52 AM »
delete

ranting

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i think i get it
« Reply #2 on: February 18, 2004, 07:35:16 AM »
It is similar to my most recent contact.  You avoid, they pursue.  When you reluctantly engage, provide support/supply for them, as soon as they realize they have still got you under control, you are dismissed.  Is that about right?

Guest2

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PHONE CALLS!!!
« Reply #3 on: February 18, 2004, 06:10:47 PM »
That is exactly the way it goes, ranting & guest.   I lived this one more times than I'd like to think about.   This is nothing less thanclassic N behavior.

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PHONE CALLS!!!
« Reply #4 on: February 18, 2004, 06:16:32 PM »
Well, I surely do appreciate hearing that it is classic behaviour.  Because it really has hurt me, and I am still trying to recover from the last "seek, pretend to love, and destroy" on Valentine's day.  Classic.

phoenix

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PHONE CALLS!!!
« Reply #5 on: February 18, 2004, 06:40:22 PM »
bye

AA

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phone call etiquette
« Reply #6 on: February 22, 2004, 03:05:30 PM »
My ex-boyfriend used to tell me that Emily Post says that the one placing the call is the one to end the call. Therefore, even if we had been talking for 45 minutes, and I now needed to go do something else, it was rude for me to say, "It's been nice talking to you. Thanks for calling."This same boyfriend thought nothing of having another attractive single woman (whom he'd been in love with in the past) spend overnights at his home---in the guest bedroom, of course. He always had his "reasons" to help her out this way, even though I was very threatened by the situation. He was only thinking of her, he'd tell me. I shouldn't feel so insecure. I wonder what Emily Post might say to that etiquette of his.

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forget ettiquette
« Reply #7 on: February 22, 2004, 09:07:36 PM »
let the codes go unless you are sure the other person accepts and will adhere to them.